HI all, I have being going out with my girlfriend for over 4 years the other week she told me she was pregnant and she was going to have an abortion, also things had been a bit up and down and there had been a lot of fighting in our relationship. She assured me the baby was mine which I know was a stupid thing for me to ask but it was more heat of the moment. Two days later she said we should not be together anymore and that she needed space to clear her head and to give her two months to see how she feels, my head is also all over the place because of this can anybody please out there put me in the right direction in what to do.

The abortion thing is a major relationship-killer. Nothing you can do about this, honestly, short of marrying her and making a family and avoiding the abortion. Else case, it's a horrible situation.

If the abortion happens, you have no options here. You do what she says. If she says "break for two months"... you breakup for 2 months and contact her when she contacts you.

I'm sorry for your situation. She's in a worse spot that you are, so keep that in mind.

She's made up her mind. You are out.

JB is right.