I am a 19yr. Old virgin. I want to have sex, but am to nervous to actively pursue a guy for it. It is hard for me to make a guy interested in me sexually. What can I do to fix this?

Your first time should be special do not just rush into it with a random because you want to have sex. Maybe you should wait until the right guy comes along, you are onli 19. You have your hole life ahead of you to have sex as much as you want. Don't be nervous about guys they are the same as girls maybe just get out there more and get up the courage to talk to them. Join a unisex sporting team this is always a good way to meet men or anything similar. Hope this has helped. Xx

Waiting for someone special will make it much more pleasurable. Please don't just search out someone that will have sex with you to lose your virginity. Just wait for the right relationship and only give this precious gift to the person that truly deserves it.

Just imagine how much you'd be heartbroken later on if you lost your virginity in a one-night-stand. It won't feel good.

Imagine worst case... you lose you virginity on a one night stand and later discover you are pregnant. Accidents do happen.

Save it for the right guy. You will find one.

You are too young and immature to have sex, girl.

First things first, you have to learn how to relate to men better.

You are just trying to go into losing your virginity as a victim, did you know that? What happens to victims? They let people abuse them. Really bad, kiddo.

Now, live and grow and experience life and make male friends and do stuff.

Best wishes to you on your voyage throughout life. :)