Hi my name is ray and a month ago I got off a bad relationship and I met this dude. I really started to like him. He stud up for me he was there for me and he made me laugh a lot. I started to have feelings for him. The funny thing is that we never kissed. Until one night we were hanging out. Than it happened. I no I no this is taking it really slow but it is what it is. So than we start to hang out more. We went to our friends house and we fell asleep in the bed and we hucked up again. It as beautiful. I spend the hole day with him. Than that same night he went home and I went to town with my friends. Than I see a girl that live in the same town that he lives in. I'm friends with her. So comes up to me and tells me how they are going out and how she loves him. She was crying. And she told me that he broke up with her because of me, because he wanted to be with me. Than she said that the boy I'm talking to had sex with a dude so I as like what the hell. So I call him up and asked him if it was true. He said no and got pist off and hang up on me. The next day I see him and he doesn't say hi to me or nothing. I'm like what the hell I know that I didn't do anything wrong. So I go up to him and asked him hay I need to talk to you. (it was to see if he was still going out with this girl just to make sure everything was OK between us) so after I asked him he don't even look at me and says "na i'm good". At this time I think he is mad at me but I didn't do anything. So I was likw WHAT EVER. And after we talked he said if I even cared about him I would beleave what everyone was saying ( so it turned out that he was never going out with this girl that they just talk but nothing else). I said I'm sorry. But now he doesn't want to talk to me or anything. I still have felling for him. I want to be with him, because nobody made me feel the same way he did. So what do you think that I can do that he would want me bak?:confused: :confused:

Sounds like he was running game and got caught. It's never good when your girlfriends talk...

If he can walk away so easy, is this someone you want to be with no matter how much you like him?

Cut ties with that player.

Useless, ruthless, idiotic...

Good thing he got caught up in his own entrapment.

You have quite a mess, and will never solve it by being blinded by his charms, or anything he says. You will never control him, and he will do as he wants, with who he wants. Whether he comes back or not. Let this go!

Do not fall into the trap. Get out - run for your life.

Girl I'm going through the same thing but it was a little different I did something bad to him I love him but if he doesn't want to be with me than I want him to happy not be miserbale to be with me just tell him you love him and that if he says off than he never really wanted you he just wanted what you gave him if you need more help just ssay so