Father dies is girlfriend obligated
Hi,
A lot of you know my situation from past post. Anyway my girlfriend broke it off after 3 years. It has been 4 months since we broke up and 1 1/2 of no contact until a few days ago. I e-miled her a few times to see when would be a good time to exchange the rest of our things since in the past we agreed to return everything. I basically wrote in the e-mail that I heard she was seeing someone else so why wait, we should exchange things now.
After 3 e-mails she finally writes back saying she is not with someone else but I can believe what I want. She was angry saying I just want to know if she found someone new. She also said she is happy and at ease with the break up. She then brought up how I did not buy her a valentines day card last year in which I know I did. Anyway she said we could meet up tp only exchange our things because she has started to heal and does not need to bring the hurt back. I told her I wold let her know the day we could. Just 2 days later my dad died. I texted her that he died and she said " sorry to hear that" and that was all she said. I wrote back what happened and since I have heard nothing back from her and that was 2 days ago.
What should she do or being that we are done does she have to do anything, I mean it has only been 4 months and we were engaged and together for 3 years almost. The way I see it either she is not know what to do because she is in a bad spot or simply she feels we are not togther so why get involved. I am disapointed in her and I don't even want my things back or to ever talk to her again if she says or does nothing over my dads passing.
One more thing if she is happy and as ease with us apart then why bring up me not buying her a valentines day card..? Does that sound like a person that is over us and has moved on?