Me and my boyfriend were together for a year and a half... then we broke up for a year and a half and I've been still in love with him. Now we're back together... but I don't know what happening. He comes over like once a week because he lives far away... and in the first month he text me everyday and talked to me on msn... but now the 2nd month... he's not. Just the occasional hi how are you and the date to meet up. But that's all. He's always busy with his sports stuff and I understand that.. but even just one text a day would be nice... and I told him. And he said I promise ill text you. I've text him 4times in the last 4 days... and he hasn't replied...

What's happening.

"amybum", sad to say,your boyfriend doesn't appear to be as interested in this
Relationship as you are.

You really need to have a serious talk,with him,as soon as possible.

Try using this tactic agaist him, try to use the nc and not talk to him unless he talks to u. when he finally does, say ' see doesn't that hurt, me not talking to you? Now you know how I feel.' if he apologizes and really means it, he is interested. If not... then I'm sorry to say, he probably isn't.

Whatever broke you up in the first place, was never fixed, and its still a problem. I would also add he may not have the same interests as you do.

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He comes over like once a week because he lives far away...

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Long distance huh? No wonder this will never work for you especially with the poor communications between you. Sorry don't be confused as it would be a lot better to have someone closer who can at least SHOW more interests in you as he doesn't at all.

Hope this isn't just a booty call for him.

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Originally Posted by amybum

Me and my boyfriend were together for a year and a half... then we broke up for a year and a half and ive been still in love with him. Now we're back together... but I don't know what happening. he comes over liek once a week 'cos he lives far away... and in the first month he text me everyday and talked to me on msn... but now the 2nd month... he's not. just the ocassional hi how are you and teh date to meet up. but thats all. he's always busy with his sports stuff and i understand that.. but even just one text a day would be nice... and i told him. and he said i promise ill text you. ive text him 4times in the last 4 days... and he hasnt replied...

Whats happening.?

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What's happening? First of all, He is not really your boyfriend. You have not even known him for 1 year in a half. You may be in love with him but I do not understand how. How far does he live away? It is hard to say exactly what is happening except long distance relationships are hard, but how do you know your going out again when you only see each other once in a while. When do you see him again? Talk to him and ask him? Tell him how you feel.

Do not play games with him like somebody else suggested, that is just borrowing for trouble, but do not be hanging on to every text or sitting waiting for him to text you. It is not healthy and not fun.

Joe