My boyfriend and I have been together for awhile I know he used to be an alcoholic but he stopped drinking for awhile. He just recently moved in with a friend of his and he started drinking occasionally. I think his alcoholism has come back but I don't know how to approach it or how to get him help. Every time I try to talk about he is either too drunk to know what I am saying or he gets mad and says he just needed to relax from work. I am very scared for him. And I really need help. He doesn't change when he is drunk but it has gotten ridiculous. For example tonight we were supposed to hang out when I got off work but he went to go play cards with some friends so I wait from eight until twelve and he still hasn't called, so I call him and he is slurring his words horribly he can't talk about one subject for more than one sentence and he told me he had twenty drinks. I know he drives after he drinks and that scares me so much. I just want to help him but I don't know where to start. Please help