Should I stay and fight or just give up and leave for good.
I been having more pro ble ms lately with my husband well were not legally married but living together for four years and we have a 3 year old boy the problems have to do with his sister and mainly him how he treats me sometimes he talks to me loudly in front of his family and it embarasses me because I try to be nice to him massage him hug him show a lot of affection to see if he does the same but no he doesn't do it before he was constantly screaming at me in front of all these people and I told him a lot of times to stop that because I didn't like it he doesn't do a lot like before but he still does it we live with his sis her husband and2 cousins and a uncle sometimes I feel so uncomfortable told him various times that I want to mov e he doesn't want to move h e tells me he still loves me but sometimes I don't feel like he does sometimes he ask my son when weare mad if he would like to be with him or me and thank god my son says me before he use to threaten me that he would take my son to mexico if we broke up then he would say he would never separate me from my son he s mexican he's married over there and has a daughter he sends money for his daughter and that's the only communication he has
He hasn't been to mexico for 5 1/2 years he can't get divorced ov er here he has to go physically to mexico and I was planning on going with him but since I'm seeinghow he is acting now my father says to not make a stupid decision
Because if I'm over there he can't defend me if he ever tried to beat me or something like that and I k now that is true I would be defenseless in a country I don't know about so I'm not going over there also because I see how his sis is acting and how she lying to his mom about me I don't think it would be wise of me considering I won't have no family over there if I needed them well sometimes I feel like he's my world and would prefer if he was always nice to me worrying about me you k now lovi ng me and another thing I thin k he put s his f****ing sister before me if she ask for a favor he jumps to get it if I need afavor he says why don't you do it like the other time I was mad at him I stayed over my parents house and I call him to pick me up he tells me he's working I say OK we hang up he calls couple hours later tells me when I'm going home so I c an cook I get mad and tell him for him to cook obviously didn't have no money to go home he didn't give me none so couldn't
Go on bus and he doesn't tells me he's going to pick me up or nothing we hang up then at 11 pm at night he calls saying that if I want him to pick me up I start getting happy thinking he misses me and wants me home then he tells me because I'm going to get my sister too I get so mad because he didn't want to pick me up but she calls he wants to get her first then me I told him no and he ask me if I wanted to stay at my parents that he could take my stuff I started crying because it hurt so much he basically chose her over me she didn't have to beg for the favor or anything he says I always act like the victim but when I ask him what I do wrong he tells me I always tell you and you never change and the fact is he never never tells me so how will I know what to change but in a way I think I really haven't left considering everything I've been through with him its because of my son and because I still feel something for him I just feel like the love is dying slowly but definitely drifting away and I don't know what to do if you read my other post on other people and family its called[i hate my sister in law she's ruining my relationship ]
Might get a little more information on m y problem but I really need some help I don't know if I should fight or just give up I feel like I'm the only one trying to fix relationship.please help
