My 13 month old son''s father is in the United States Airforce and has received orders to move to Alaska. He is now suing me for Joint Custody of our son. He wants our son to stay overnight with him and weekends without me before he leaves. The only issue I have is I am still nursing him at night. Another issue he has is that he wants our son to spend an exteded amount of time with him in Alaska. He has ased for 2 to 3 months of visitation with him in the summer. I cannot let my son go for that long without me right now. My son will not understand and will think I have abandoned him. His father was not there that much throughout his first year and our son has really just gotten used to him.I think 6 weeks of visitation in the summer when he is older is more suitable. Right now he is just too young.He was not there for main key moments in my son''s life, including surgery when he was 7 months old. He believes he is capable of taking care of our son overnight and in Alaska, but I do not.