Hubby doesn't come inside
Hello everyone,
Iam writing to you cause I need some suggestions or advice.. I have been married to my husband just 2months now and he hasn't yet come inside me.. His fear before was the fact that he could get me pregnant so he would finish it outside when he would feel it coming-but now after we're married Ive been taking birth control and Ive actually been wanting him to come inside but he still comes outside.. He has also a problem with keeping himself hard, but even though I try all the methods(putting sexy oufits, doing different positions etc.) he still has trouble keeping his thing hard.. He needs to really concentrate, and can't have any distractions (no touching his face, holding his hand etc.) this is so he won't lose his hardness during sex.. He also has masturbated a lot before he meet me, so I was wondering that that's probably the reason why he can't come inside-cause he is so use to masturbating himself.. but isn't intercourse suppose to be more pleasurable for a man than having himself masterbate while reaching his peek? Is this normal for him to have? Could the reason be another woman? We've been together since 2007 and he has never come inside me not even once.. Is their any reason to this? Is this something that I should be worried about? Could it be that he is hiding a disease of some sort that can be transmitted by the fluids that comes out when he peeks and that's why he doesn't want to come? Could it be that I don't turn him on? Maybe, Iam overthinking too much-thats the problem with me.. Iam just so confused, help.. any advice?
P.S. I have spoken to him about it several times, and his response is always that he is afraid to get me pregnant (even if I am taking the pill) or he tells me that why is it so important for me for him to come inside-that what's the big deal