OK me and my g/f broke up about a week and half ago she said she just needed to make sure this is what she wanted in life and she just had a lot going on right now.well I mean I love her a lot I mean we were together for 2 years and had a strong relationship I mean the week before all this happen she wanted us to go look at a ring. It just came all out of the blue. She never cheated on me or anything so I no its not that but anyway that's not really what my question is anyway right after the break up we talk but it never was a very good talk. Since then we have talk a couple times not about the relationship but just talked and they were decent conversations. My question is does anyone have any advice about this? And does this seem like she will come back or what? Is there anything I could do that would help her comeback?

If there were no visible problems, and she decided without notice to break it off, then I'd say move on and forget it.

The only thing you could do to make her WANT to come back is go on with your life, meet another awesome girl, give HER your total devotion, make her feel like a queen, get married, have 4 wonderful kids and see the world as a family.

Someday your ex will look at all that and go "crap!" You win.

If she decided to break things off for no apparent reason maybe she was already thinking about it.. IDK... :confused:
Maybe you should just let it go, live your life.. Dnt talk to her, and see what happens

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my question is does anyone have any advice about this?

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Avoid all the confusion and assumptions by backing off and regrouping yourself. By leaving her alone you keep your dignity and self respect and focus on healing and accepting, for whatever reason its over. Sorry for your loss, but click on the links in my signature fro some insights and suggestions about how to cope with that loss.

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and does this seem like she will come back or what?

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Not likely.

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is there anything I could do that would help her comeback?

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Not likely