How do I deal with my son's anger?
:eek: OK so I am new to this site but I really need some help with questions concerning my 4yr old son. Me and his father are not together and haven't been since my son was 7months old, but my son has had a wonderful man taking care of him since then. The relationship with my sons father is very difficult because he acts like a child,just a lilttle fact my fiancé a man of color is the best thing that has ever happened to me and my son he has treated my son like his own. My sons dad is a very racist person and in the beginning wanted nothing at all to do with our son because my fiancé was helping me raise him. That lasted about a year but recently my sons father lost his job and has been unable to pay child support so they are trying to suspend his license which is out of my control it's the law. Anyway he had the nerve to get is mother to call me and tell me that if they do that then he wants nothing to do with my son. How ignorant is that? Now my concern is the fact that my son has so much anger I don't know how to deal with it. I just want his dad to sign over his rights and leave him alone my son has not spoken to his dad since christmas his birthday was in feb and he didn't even get a call! I lnow people may think my son is to young to realize what's going on but he really isn't he truly misses is father and when he ask to go stay with him and I tell him I don't know how to get in touch with him he gets angry at me and hits me or his sister. My sons father has really put me through a lot he has threatened to blow my car up while my son was in it, he has threatened to shoot up my house, kill my fiancé and kidnap my son. He has some mental problems and I never feel safe when my son is with him I just need to know what to do and him paying child support is no concern to me because I work very hard to take care of my family... please someone give me some advice!! :confused: