When I was 14 I gave up goodess to a 18 year old that I was dating! I thought he was the one that I should give it to so I did. I loved him and well I thought he loved me. So as time went on we were dating and everything seem to be cool. Until one day at church my suppose to be best friend, ride or die , sister and him make eye contact. So about a few weeks later she start having boy trouble and me being me I gave her some advice on what she should do. So she ask for my boyfriends number she wanted to ask him something from a male point of view so I said fine since I'm thinking she want betray me in anyway like that. (wateva). So they started talking on the phone be hind my back after that. So the night of my mom wedding the decide to tell me that three months out of the five months that we were dating they were dating! Now isn't that some . So nine years have come and gone and they just broke up. But since that night me and him have been off and on but I was the keep in the dark girl to her and some of his friends. But they both always us to call for advice in they relationship. So now she'd moved on with her life and found her a young guy to date. So he's been trying to pick up where we left off and in a way I'm falling for that same old bull again. What should I do

Move on. Have nothing to do with him. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Besides, I don't like the fact that an 18 year old willingly had sex with a 14 year old, that's illegal. It's called statutory rape, and he could go to jail for it.

Tell him to pick up his own size!!

Anywaiz is he that attractive?. dat you fall for him again and again?
Waat's so cool/guddy at him aniwaiz?

He doesn't sound worth it. Find someone new.

He's not worth it, and I think you already know it. You gave a very discriptive background, re-read your post, you already have the answer dear.