My husband treats me like housekeeper
I desperately need some tips.. I have been married for 10 yrs and has 2 very young lovely kids.my husband is a very busy man who has no time for us.. I am well qualified and is keen to work... but since my husband is dead against me going for a job I have not tried for one.I am an expatriate in my counrty of residence and so earlier on he had made that an excuse for not letting me work.then kids came ,and they were the next excuse.
All he needs is a housekeeper who can take care of all his necessities.he is very abusive if even a smallest thing is not to his convenience.he never gives a helping hand either... and then comes the physical abuses... if I don't sleep with him or submit myself to his sexual advances he would show his manly strength in dragging me and hurting me.. verbal abuses are intolerable... I am emotionally in low spirits with no outlets... in our community ,divorce is a social taboo and I can't think of it either because I know my kids need a father and I can't be a burden on my old parents... many a times I have tried to talk to him ,but he makes attack his best defence policy .since I do not want my kids be a witness to this I try to be quiet..
Do tell me a way out..