I don't even know what to do.
Well.. I'll start this by saying that my boyfriend evidently is extremely jealous and I find it really weird.
I'll start at the beginning and I hope its not too long.
This summer I started going back to gymnastics to get in shape for college cheerleading tryouts. I brought my boyfriend along because he wanted to watch. Well, he started participating in the sessions and learned how to tumble a bit and really liked it. We tried to stunt together one day and it went OK.. but I just had him stunt with me because my instructor was helping someone else.
Anyway.. I tried out for cheerleading in late August and made the team. Everything has been going pretty good but my boyfriend is really jealous. There were a few spots left on the team and he said he kind of wanted to do it.. and I told him no because to tell you the truth.. I don't want to get sick of him.. we're together all the time except for cheerleading.. and it's like my thing.. my special hobby.. my time to be with friends and do what I've done since I was 5 yrs old, you know?
Well.. tonight he comes in at the end of my practice and is sitting there watching. I was talking to this guy about how to fix this tumbling pass he was working on. Practice ends and I walk over to my boyfriend and he says that he needs to talk to me. We get back to my apartment and we're sitting in the car. He tells me that he wants to cheer and when he cheers with me it's the only time he feels like we're a team.
He's never been a cheerleader in his life.. now all of a sudden.. since I'm doing it, he wants to.
In the past I took my lifeguard test because I wanted to be a lifeguard, well guess who had to go get their lifeguarding certs too? Before that I needed a job so I applied at a telemarketing place.. and he had to do that too. I just feel like every time there's something I want to do, he's on my heels having to copy it all and it's a bit annoying.
He ended up storming out of my car because I told him that I didn't know what he wanted me to do about the situation since every spot is filled now.
I don't know.. I don't even know what the question is here.. but what do you all think about this situation? Someone please reply.