OK so here's the delio. I don't like to use conditioner. So at night I like to take a shower. And I wash my hair with only shampoo, nothing else. So in the morning when I go to school, I wet it a little bit and I style it the way I want. Well the proble is that when I'm at school, its all thick and it doesn't move. And I want it to ber soft and movable. Think I should use conditioner, but I don't like to.

Is there any way I could do something else besides conditioner?

I heard that putting olive oil on it is great. Also try using flat iron occasionally to straighten it not a blow dryer cause blow drying it makes it more thicker, I know cause my niece has hair like yours. You can also use Biosilk silk therapy its great for the hair you can find it in solons and in many stores like Target or pharmacies like walgreens. Hope it helped

Jojoba oil is suppose to be good. They have a whole bunch of new hair products in the grocery stores now that claim to thicken hair. I can't remember the names but they are on the expensive side.

I think this is one of the ones in the grocery store that is good.

http://www.zhair.com/bedhead.html

They say stuff like thickening or volumizing

Why do you not like using conditioner? Because it's too thick? Slimy? Time consuming? Because if that's why then you could use a leave in conditioner when you've come out of the shower/bath. Most of them spray out as a fine mist so it isn't thick but makes your hair soft.
Also a great alternative is olive oil or coconut oil. Rub a tiny amount into damp hair (be sure not to apply near scalp or it'd look greasy) then dry it or dry naturally. :)

Your hair is tough and dry because it lacks moisture. You should use a conditioner every time you shampoo your hair. A conditioner can make your hair smooth, shiny, and healthy. But if you don't want use a condition, opt for a moisturizing shampoo. NOhelp4u, I actually have the Bed Head Sexed-Up Conditioner, I love it.