Where do I begin.. I'm an early 20's girl, and I have been with my early 20's boyfriend for 6+ years. Now, I can honestly say that I am an attractive person ; I'm not conceited, I just know that I was blessed with nice looks.. not to mention the being hit on factor. Anyway. As many women say, in the beginning of our relationship, we were having a good amount of sex - apparently however, he has never been a very sexual person, so 'a good amount of sex' for us meant about 2 or 3 times a week. He is absolutely not gay, though he was raised by his mother (so he has none of that stereotypical, male thirst for sex). Anyway... I wasn't aware of his AWFUL mmorpg addiction - but when I moved in with him (5ish years ago?), I realized that he was playing world of warcraft anywhere from 5 to 18 hours at a time, every... single.. day. It was almost unbelievable, I just... thought that he had a life. He was a really intelligent, complex and interesting person when I fell in love with him.. I don't know what happened. Needless to say I thought this was just a phase he was going through, he does suffer from social anxiety and depression after all, but he hasn't yet come out of this phase. I like to have fun and go out and talk to people... make friends.. create memories. I always used to try to arrange trips for him and myself to go camping, or hiking or even on a day trip - but he would have none of it - in fact, he'd get quite upset with me... as if I was asking for too much of his time. So I've stopped trying to get him to do what you would think would be normal, enjoyable, couple stuff with me. I love him... I'm not sure that I am IN love with him anymore.. but I'm still very attached. I guess I'm just stupidly hopeful that he'll come to his senses some day and make a 360 - and I'll recognize the person I was so taken with at one time. Anyway to get to the point, these days we have sex maaybe once a month, if I'm lucky. I used to try to seduce him, or even just ask nicely, but I'd get shot down every time and it was too embarrassing. He is never in the mood.. and I don't even dare try to get him there, it just upsets him. If we do have sex, it is 100% on his terms... I'm so frustrated and, I guess I'm looking for anything to keep myself in the relationship, any hope that he might change - because as of now, I'm just not ready to leave him. Oh one more complaint... I'm sure everyone knows how world of warcraft works.. you get in teams or even guilds and do little missions with the same people day in and day out. Well he made a best friend on WOW, a girl (and unfortunately for her, she's not very attractive).. so she flew out to visit him (and other guild members) a few times, then moved from the OTHER side of the US to live in our town. Apparently she is just slowly moving across the states on her way to school, but I have expressed my dislike for the situation.. it just doesn't sound quite right... I didn't even like it at first when they chatted all day on ventrillo - and he pays absolutely no attention to what I say, or says that I'm in the wrong. Anyway, now she lives here and we sometimes do things, the 3 of us.. and he says to me 'you know I'm more comfortable with girls than guys.. and that I have no friends; please don't make me give up my only friend' - which is sort of a slap in the face... I feel like why does she get to be so much closer to him than I do. Aaaaaaaaanyway.. I'm sorry this is so long... but what in the world should I do? Some days are good, others are bad.. but I hold onto the hope that it could all go back to the way it was... thank you for listening.. any advice?