Ok, here is the deal; pretty common and you guys might have answered/read similar problems. I am having real hard time getting over with my ex girlfriend. It been almost 8-9 months, but I still think about her, in fact care about her.
We were great together, but there was only one problem. She was scared to get hurt because I was “the best” guy she ever met. She told me that I was the nicest guy she has ever met and it was so unrealistic for her that she wouldn't want to move further into relationship. It sounds totally illogical, but I was punished for being nice and good here; sometimes I wish I was an evil and a$$hole. As a consequence of this, I got really mad at her for rejecting something best for foolish reason. I never entertained her after that, but she kept calling me and talking like a normal friend. Now my problem is, I hate her for not accepting what I was willing to offer, but at the same time I stop liking her. So it’s like like-hate relationship, which is occurring at the same time. I can never forget the way she treated me, but I can also never forget the amazing time I had with her. I have no clue what to do or how to deal with it!
I know that the solution could be simple. If I think logically and keep my ego aside, we could get back together. But it’s not easy to ask my brain to think logically and follow what my heart wants. I offered her the best, and she rejected it. Then why should I regret? I am in that dilemma stage where both choices looks bad; catch-22 or loose-loose situation. Any, healthy suggestions?
AM