Is there someone else? Should I move on?
My boyfriend has been behaving strangely all of a sudden. He calls me about once a day now, it seems just to say he called. He started canceling dates with me. He seems preoccupied, and always checking his cell phone now. He never used to walk away from me when his phone rang, but now he is always getting calls, and asking me if he can take the call, but drops back. When I asked him about the phone calls. Wait! Let me take you there! I was with him one day, and a co-worker of his (female) came running up to his truck smiling. She did not see me at first, but he leaned out of the window and motioned her to where she didn't talk. She waved to me and left. As we drove off, his phone immediately rang. It was her! He stayed on the phone with her for about 45 minutes. I was extremely upset and hurt, but did not say anything until weeks later. He claims he does not remember the incident and proceeded to apologize. I did not say anything then because I didn't want him to think I was jealous. It was not that, I was hurt because I am with him and he chose to talk to some other woman for 45 minutes. Was I wrong?I felt like I was not important and she was. But! Where the real problem lies is that, he doesn't want me talking to male friends on the phone PERIOD! Whether I am with him or not. Is this a control issue? Could there be someone else? Help Me Please? Tired of crying!!!!!!!:(
