I'm in my mid twenties, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years and we have been living together w/ 2 dogs for 4 1/2 years. I want him to commit and he won't. He says it scares him. I want to have kids and I want to get married now... what should I do?

I think you waited to long he has became to comfortable with the way you are now he believes this is how you should live in society now less couples are getting married so that's probably how he feels