Ok I was dating someone for 3 months we use to have crazy sex.. when I got pregnant we still did until I hit like 3 or 4 months he stopped coming on to me like he use to I would go to sleep with him and he would just always go to sleep and when I would try to be on him he always ignored it and he said he was always tired and he wasn't feeling sexual so I started feeling like there was someone else. I would always cry so I decided to just distance myself from him because I didn't want to get hurt... and he always just said he was tired and that he wasn't having sex with no one else but I didn't believe it.. we had sex again when I was like 6 months pregnant and he came in like 5 minutes and he was like " I told you I havent had sex in a long time" well we started argueing a lot because at one point He just stopped calling me back like he said he would and he was always with his friends but I just felt there was someone else... so I stopped talking to him for like 2 months and he never called me either until I hit my last month in my pregnancy... so OK my baby is 2 months old I don't really see him that much maybe like twice a week(because of certain reasons) he's only allowed to see the baby twice a week for now. The last time he had sex with me was when I was almost 7 months pregnant and We got into an argument not too long ago because he thinks I'm having sex with someone else or "talking to someone else" and then I tell him that I know he hasn't gone 4 or 5 months without having sex and he keeps telling me he hasn't done anything for a long time and he never messed with another female while I was pregnant and that he still hasn't and he tells me how much he truly cares for me and all this stuff and how he want to work things out with me and not argue so much.. but not too long ago (he doesn't know this) I was at his apartment and he left to the store and I went through his dresser and I found 2 condoms and a pair of boxers like right where the condoms were and his boxers don't go in that drawer and I never mentioned it to him cause its not really my place to go through his stuff.. and I know he would get mad about that... but that just proved to me that he has been having sex with someone else because we haven't had sex since that one time... and until this day he says there's no one else... I want to tell him how I saw the condoms but I know it would just bring a big argument.. and now he acts like I always wanted him to act towards me like he cares and he wants to be with me and stuff but I just don't know what to believe.. and we still haven't even had any body contact... please help what should I do should I tell him I went through his things or leave it alone?. and why would a pair of boxers be crumbled up along with 2 condoms because he had sex right?!
