He refuses to see that it's over
I have been married for 5 years and am not or never was in love the way you are supposed to be with my husband. We fight a lot and have different ways of parenting. Different religions, interests, just have nothing in common. He is always gone to his friends house. He yells at me and the kids on a daily basis. I am ready to get divorced but he doesn't think anything is wrong, and doesn't agree. Basiclly I don't like him and I don't think he likes me. Why is he holding onto this marriage? I have mentioned that I want a divorce many times and he just gets mad and leaves but he comes back and pretends everything is fine. I don't want to hurt him, but in staying in an unhappy marriage I am hurting myself and my kids. How do I end it without hurting him too badly?