Trying to get visitation.
Can you please help me. Here is a quick background. I met a girl and had a relationship with her for over a year. I found out later that she was actually married and her husband was in Afganistan. Needless to say we broke up but had a baby before we did. She told me 1 1/2 years later he was mine and even let me visit with him before I flew back home.(I was getting out of the military) She told me before I left that I would be able visit him often and not to worry about doing anything legal. She is back with her husband and now she won't talk to me. I've told her I was going to get a lawyer but that just makes her mad. She says that if I pursue it legally that I'll never see him again. I just need to know if I have a case because I don't want to take the chance of never seeing him again. I want to pay child support and I want visitation. Is there any thing I can do? Thank you so much.
-Randy
p.s. my name is not on the birth certificate
And I am 100% sure he is mine because he looks just like me.
Also she is non-cooperative and most likely will not agree to anything.