Hi.. I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 months.. but yessterday he broke up with me.. I think its becausei had a go at him about getting a job but I might have done it in a nasty way. I really miss him, and I want him back.. what can I do? He said it was over on the phone.. so I went to his house and asked him to come down.. finally he did but insisted it was over. He hasn't called me at all since I saw him yesterday, and I haven't called him. What can I do to get him back.. I already apologised.

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Originally Posted by lulu1212

Hi..i have been with my boyfriend for about 2 months.. but yessterday he broke up with me.. i think its becausei had a go at him about getting a job but i might have done it in a nasty way. i really miss him, and i want him back.. what can i do? he said it was over on the phone.. so i went to his house and asked him to come down.. finally he did but insisted it was over. He hasnt called me at all since i saw him yesterday, and i haven't called him. what can i do to get him back.. i already apologised.

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You think that way. And it happened yesterday. And you miss him. And he is not going to come tomorrow, and say, oh darling! You apologised. He is angry. Let his angry flee, and than wait for him to call you. Otherwise, let him go his way. If he was angry at you, whatever the reason, and he can't go out of his way for the sake of you and your relation, he is not worth lady. Just because... but I don't think breaks come so easily. So calm down a little and let his angry flee. Wait 3 days.

You hurt him. Apologies don't remove the sting of nasty comments. If he is humiliated by you about being out of work it will drive him away. If he is a chronic layabout,it is a different story, although being nasty about it won't help. You are together only two months? Way too soon to be so involved as to having any say in the matter anyway.