I am 48 years old,was molested as a very young child,and since becoming sexually active(age 18,OK 17 and a half) I have never been able to have an orgasm during sex by penile penetration,I have been through therapy for the sexual abuse,and my therapst told me that since I have been able to have orgasims by masturbating,I am not frigid,but I really get frustrated and even envious when friends tell me about multiple orgasims and even having orgasims from just kissing! I enjoy the act of making love but I really wish before I get too old to I want I sex anymore that I can have an orgasm while having intercourse,it is very frustraing,also if I do masturbate,I can only have one orgasm,can anyone shed some light on this, I mean is there some exercise (mental or physical) that I can do to help resolve this issue?

Honey your not alone. I can't help you too much but just to tell you your not alone. I posted some of the same thing, I don't feel anything when I'm entered. It's a tipical women problem. I can a sure you it has nothing to do with your earlyer Experiences.

You're not supposed to have an orgasm when penetrated without your clitoris being stimulated. The clitoris is the seat of orgasms. That's not a "problem" -- it's how Mother Nature made us.

You need to keep experimenting until you find a position that make his penis rub against your clitoris. That seems to be what you are lacking in intercourse.

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Originally Posted by iloveilovelucy

I am 48 years old,was molested as a very young child,and since becoming sexually active(age 18,ok 17 and a half) I have never been able to have an orgasim during sex by penile penetration,I have been through therapy for the sexual abuse,and my therapst told me that since I have been able to have orgasims by masturbating,I am not frigid,but I really get frustrated and even envious when friends tell me about multiple orgasims and even having orgasims from just kissing! I enjoy the act of making love but I really wish before I get too old to I want I sex anymore that I can have an orgasim while having intercourse,it is very frustraing,also if I do masturbate,I can only have one orgasim,can anyone shed some light on this, I mean is there some exercise (mental or physical) that I can do to help resolve this issue?!

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Yeah I have been there too. I just wonder if trust has something to do with it. I have always had trust issues with my exhusband. I think if I could have trusted him 100%, then maybe I could have let go and orgasmed. No matter what he or I did, I could never get there with him.

When you exercise more you have more orgasims
Its true the more I exercise the more horny I feel