I am a non because mom. Been every other weekend for 11 yrs. Daughter is now 13 and we are having a horrible time with her and the ex. 11 yrs of lies, going back and forth to court, therapy, all this is taking its toll on myself and my family. She is asking for termination of visitation. If I agree what does this really mean? By agreeing I am not giving up my rights am I?