Left foolish message online for ex.now confused
Hello everyone,
I had not initiated contact with my ex-girlfriend, who broke up with me, for seven weeks, when she started to instant message me everyday for eight days in a row. They were not just brief messages, as we would talk for 30 minutes or an hour at a time.
She also went way out of her way to see me in person recently, which is the first time we had seen each other since the break-up.
After I had been drinking the other night, I left an anonymous message on her Facebook account, telling her that I wanted to spoon her. Not too surprisingly, she associated the message with me--as she responded:
"Gee, I wonder who wrote this one."
My question is, given her recent influx in communication with me, and the fact that she should have known and now definitely knows that I still have feelings for her, why did she choose to respond to my message at all (as it was anonymous and only she could see it), and why did she respond as she did?
While I don't want to read too much into typed communication, her response just seems a bit harsh, especially given how much attention she had been giving me lately.
Thank you.