When I was pregnant last year my boyfriend actually told me that he wasn't attracted to pregnant women and we only had sex about once a month and when he was drunk. Not real appealing but it was sex. Anyway so I got quite a few stretch marks all over my stomach and boobs I also have some on my thighs, I still have a very thin body though. But, I feel like a turn off to him he like won't pleasure me at all its all about him. He rarely takes charge, when I bring it up I have to get him in a good mood get him horny and then be on top. After working all day, taking care of the baby, cooking dinner, and cleaning almost by myself it's the worst feeling to not even be acknowledge as a person that needs attention. I just keep doing and doing and I'm really getting burnt out. We are not rich by any means both regular work for a living people and he has no problem going out to the bar and spending his entire paycheck. It hurts so bad I just can't live like this anymore, I want to leave but don't feel like I have the means.

The stretch marks will fade over time so I can say that's not his issue, most guys don't care that much about them being there, its part of motherhood. Is the baby sleeping in the same room or in a different room. I'm suspecting it has something to do with that. But if your insurance covers it or you have the money it might be a good idea to seek marriage counseling. Yeah I agree the problem appears to be all his but maybe it will help him get past whatever his issue is.

Hello.

Sending you a Great Big Hug...

Its not you, Im sure any man would Love to be with you. He is a Jerk and wants only what makes him happy. The fact he can go out with the guys and not help you shows his immaturity. Just like any BOY he can only see his happiness and doesn't care about others.

You're a special Lady and should be treated that way. If he can't treat you that way I'm sure in time you will find a Man that will show you the Love and caring you should have. Until then your going to be better off with you and the baby. Even a small child can tell when there is stress in his parents life. Sit your Boy down and talk with him not at him about how you feel and if he can't stand up and become a Man your going to show him the door.

Good Luck
Dennis777