I met a girl 4yrs back. On the first sight I fall in love with her. She was my classmate at my college. So I started up the relationship as a friend. She was goodlooking and intelligent. Anyway through several ups & downs we carried on our relationship. But at the end of 2nd yr she got married with a foreign citizen. And at that moment for several reasons I couldn't propose her. I was also confused at that moment. Anyway, after her marriage still we continued our relationship. But at the end of 3rd yr she prepared everything to fly for her husband.
At that very moment for several reasons I felt secured and got the gut to inform her that I love her. And I proposed her. Though she had a +ve response but she had nothing to do and she left me. And we both suffered with that separation.
Anyway, after one & half yr she returned back. Recently she tried to check my status whether still I love her not. And in this gap I also didn't make any new relation. Now I'm bit confused...
> Should I get her back?
> If no how should I deal with this relation? Should I keep it as Friend/ Lost Love. I mean should I forget her or keep this relationship as friend. Personally I don't want to lost her touch.
So, give me suggestion. I'm really suffereing a lot with this relation.

What is the status of her marriage, as if she is married she is off limits. What is "+hv"?