OK.. so I know I am an attractive person, and I can be sexy...
But.. I don't know HOW to be sexy. I don't feel pretty in lingerie, I feel like it's a joke. It just comes right off anyway! How do I turn my man on and feel sexy doing so? Do guys really like lingerie?

I want to surprise my man, but I don't really know how. We have sex all the time, how can I make it different... more spicy..

That's a pretty tough question since the answer will be different for most women.

What may be sexy with one woman comes off as fake with another one.

Key is being yourself... showing how you are ready and want it. Now some women can pull off the aggressive she-knows-what-she-wants-and-goes-for-it thing while the coy aluring thing works best for others. Your looks and personality type as well as mannerisms would dictate what's best for you however.

Sorry I can't be specific but its truly an answer that is hard to pin down. Lingerie works if it's the right type for the mood. But its not a means in itself, just part of package. Granny panties is a major turnoff for most guys.. and the gaudy stuff can be as well.

Wife only whips out the regular undies for that week of the month... its G-strings and thongs the rest of the month... and trust me at 40+ she still has the body to wear them well too.

You can to know? Than I should be familier with you for which I have 2 talk 2 you. So send me your email.if you want. Let me say that I'm doing my thesis in ths topic.