Is not responding to contact effective?
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Hello everyone!
I'm new to this site, I wanted to know that is not responding when your ex calls and becoming 'unavailable' and also not be a wussgal, (like I was)is it effective to get him back?or at least capture his interest?
My boyfriend of 8months and I broke up,he initiated it first,saying he needed space and had a lot of pressure from school,he lost his mom 3 years ago and was shaken by this, I met him on a support group I was going to. Fine I gave him all the space he needed He complained that I was needy and possesive but he does give me reasons
Come to find out while in his "space" he met someone else, a girl at his school. He's 30,I'm 32. I hit totally rock bottom! Thankgoodness we don't go to the same college because if I had a would break her neck! My hobbies are kickboxing and wrestling, maybe I could put them too good use.
Now he asks if we can stay friends because I was his biggest support when things went bad,he was mine also. But stupid me thought of going along with it because I do still love him. Now as I think about its too darn painful, so I've ignored his calls and block his messages. He made his bed now he should lie on it. I deleted my from my contacts on myspace,messenger, his cell you name it, even if I know it by heart.
Would not answering him give him a wake up call?
I still love him but can't be on a limb like this,its killing me because I know I'd take him back in a second,help!