Comment on talaniman's post

For now, friends is fine, and if she stays with her boyfriend, we will stay friends. I am open to others... if I find someone. I see her everyday in class and we walk together after. If I was unavailable, I would let her know where I stand.

I would say she was the first to show interest. We talked for 5 min in our small class and I left w/o thinking about it, then she sat by me the next day in this large 250 person class(and every day since) & she delayed leaving class so we could talk.

That's fine, and logical, but don't let her block you from other options, and opportunities, and having a very BALANCED, fun experience during your college years. It really is a special time to learn, and grow, and find your life path.

Sorry I was rather harsh, its only because I care about people being all they can be, especially younger people. Hope there are no hard feelings, and you feel you can ask any question you have, and good luck, and enjoy your youth.

On a date?? I think she would need to be single for that, but that is just me...

I meant a date with someone else, not with her. Ask her, that would be an interesting, and revealing conversation for sure.

You would at least get some insights as to what's in her head.

Sorry, I wish I chipped in earlier, but check out this guideline: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...ip-463250.html

I suspect that it will give you some insights.

First this sounds like a fairy tail; the most thing I could say to you is that just be friends if they really like you; They will brake up with the one the like and go out with the one they love.

You should tell her how you feel. I am in basically the same situation with liking a girl that has a boyfriend. I really like her and I think she likes me a little. We used to talk like once everyday. And then I told her how I felt about her and I told her that "i really like her and i would like to have a chance with her, but i dont want to ruin her relationship with her bf." After I told her how I feel about her. We have been talking almost 24/7. So my advice would be to go to her and tell her how you really feel but make sure you let her know that you don't want to ruin your friendship with her. I hope all works out.