Haha... no, no star whores today, although we did watch the history of star whores on Tuesday on the discovery channel or history channel or something...

Yeah Im a huge harry potter head... the right and easy quote is from the books. I can pretty much quote anything of importance... and I have made million shirts... lol... im a dork. My license plate actually says grfndr... (gryffindor)

You know how I feel about the rating system and I rarely use it because it doesn't look good to keep giving them out :( sorry but I get told off if I abuse it.

OI YOU LOT STOP FLIPPING DOUBLE POSTING WE ARE ONLY 50 PAGES AWAY FROM A NEW THRED...

I don't know how not tooooooooo, and I definitely don't want to make CURLYBENSWIFE mad! Help someone help!
{EDIT}is this how?

I will leave this to you meanies. I'm out!

Are you saying I am abusing it. I am using it properly and giving it out accordianly so please do not hit me off the side of the head with your witch broom or I will have to get my big pot out and start stirring. Lol



You will never believe it. The two ratings that I got from you starters and aka. I just deleted that post as and experiament and it took your comments away. Oh my god, I did not realize that would happen and I was just trying to make room for more posts.

Are you saying I am abusing it. I am using it properly and giving it out accordianly so please do not hit me off the side of the head with your witch broom or I will have to get my big pot out and start stirring. lol

I merely stated a fact Joe you know what to do if you don't like it don't you :p

If any of you want to use that energy in another way and feel a little frisky and up for a good debate.. there is a fireball of one starting over in the religion department... woo hoo!!

/double posts and runs like hell

I honestly do not remember double posting? I just erased comments and greenies from a post because I deleted it. Why did I do that? Anyway, by for now. Good night everybody and have a great weekend. Love you all, even the one that is holding the broom. Ha Ha ha.

I have my pot ready. Lol

Jk.

I think one of my posts were deleted because I was saying something about your pot. And before it even got posted it was gone. Are people watching me type? That's weird!

Big brother...

Scary!! I am so putered out I just got to go now. My eyes are popping out. Hugs, start

Later! Ah I understand now... big brother administrator...

I got a reddy today. And I'm still not sure why. I sent the person a messege because she called the person asking the question paranoid. I don't like that. It only hurts when someone comes here needing answers. So I posted a reddy for that.
As for the pull out method(not meant for anyone here I promise) men are like basketball players who dribble before they shoot. Can't believe I typed that with a straight face.
And it was a cat that got stuck behind the t.v. I should've left him there to teach him a lesson but I think it would've been on me if he had an accident behind it.
My older one got locked in the closet and had an accident. It took at least 3 days to completely get the smell out. I didn't want arepeat performance.
I spoke with J last night. I swear she's a wonder all her own. She called to tell me she was listening to Rick Springfield on the way to see her dad. We talked and she said she missed everyone.
I'm gaining on the senior status. Full member is cool. But start's reaction is priceless.
Syn you're too cute for words. I accidnetly double posted an answer last night and I got shut out. Wished I'd've run like hell. You're right, they do howoooooool when it suites them. You should see this house in the morning at feeding time. I get the boys their breakfast as the felines stair at my legs licking their lips. (wish mr. chipper did that for different reasons)
Tom the one who likes to cause trouble, stole chicken tenders when the kids weren't looking. He tried to steal a piece of surpreme pizza from pizza hut. He tries to get a hook in and when he does it's a fight. Think of the cartoon toma and jerry and you've got my Tom. You want to hear a howl you should hear him when I shut the bathroom door and he can't pull it open.
Joe, sweetie, vent all you want. It helps with not smoking and or our other vices like soda or junk food. But if you call it comfort food like mac and cheese or mashed potatoes it doesn't count.
Sort of like drinking a diet soda while eatting a candy bar, they cancell each other out. Hehe.
Alka, I hope you feel better soon it sucks when your pregnant and sick. But as for absuing your husband. Remember your wedding vows. For better for worse in sickness and in health. So abuse away.
AH you're the group angel. Hugs to you and everyone.
mr. chippers is going away for his army drill this weekend. Yay me and the kids locked up in the house during a rainy weekend. Pray for me. They'll probably lock me in the attic which is okay. I got to clean it any way.

Don't worry Chippers dear, I already counteracted that reddie with a greenie. I was with you on that one.

Whew, I am getting tired, 4 hours of sleep in the past 2 days just sort of gets to you, you know.

I know. I wish I was there to help you.

I wish you were too Chippers. About the morphine, it is a hospital policy at this point that they don't do drips (I was adamant, and the doc said so also), although I did get a very proactive nurse last night, she even let me help practice my skills. :D Only certain ones though. Like positioning, oral care, etc.

We tried anyway. I think it's good to do what you're doing. Positioning and oral care. It's a great comfort to you dad and to you too. My grandmother raised me for 2 years when I was little. I wasn't as far in training then as you are now. All I could do was hold her hand. She was semi coma tose and when I talked to her she hugged me. That was scary for a 20 y.o. she only responded to me. I'll always remember that time we had.

Yes, it is tough, but these will be some final memories that I will always cherish. He took care of me when I was a baby, time for me to give him the love and care he gave me.

You've been giving that all along sweetie. Every time you talked to him or came for a visit. But you're right these are going to mean even more. I didn't get that when my mom passed. It sounds funny, but I wrote her a letter and placed it under her pillow. With pics of the boys.

Oh, no that does not sound funny! Not at all. I did that when my grandfather passed!

One final gift of love for them to take with them and keep forever.

I got a few weird looks from family when they saw me lifting the pillow up along with my mom's head. If felt like that scene from desperate housewives when bree changed her husbands tie at his funneral.

I honestly do not remember double posting? I just erased comments and greenies from a post because I deleted it. Why did I do that? Anyway, by for now. Good night everybody and have a great weekend. Love you all, even the one that is holding the broom. ha Ha ha.

I have my pot ready. lol

Jk.

What planet are you on I tell you what if you really want to pick a fight with the guy who has the broom I wish you luck there.

And just for the record NO ONES post has been deleted unless you did it yourself they have merely been merged I tell you what I'm getting mighty fed up with admin bashing you guys don't see half of what goes on and how much we actually do delete and the stuff that is deleted is for you own protection it seriously grieves me when you take it on yourselves to bash them calling them big brother etc its thank's to rick, ben, chuck and j that this place is a great place to be.

I love you Laura. I was honestly just thinking last night just the same thing. What an amazing and incredible site this is. Even with the occasional invasion of the troll ( I just love that term) that have maybe a one minute life span.

Takes a whole lot of time and effort to keep it this way and I am in awe of the brain power behind it.

Hugs to you my friend.

It does take time and effort yes and people forget its free time and effort and it baffles me it really does I'm protective of them all because I know only to well how much work they all do I get to see it first hand and smart alick comments just make me so so mad.

I loves you AH

What planet are you on i tell you what if you really want to pick a fight with the guy who has the broom i wish you luck there.

And just for the record NO ONES post has been deleted unless you did it yourself they have mearly been merged i tell you what im getting mighty fed up with admin bashing you guys dont see half of what goes on and how much we actually do delete and the stuff that is deleted is for you own protection it seriously grieves me when you take it on yourselves to bash them calling them big brother etc its thank's to rick, ben, chuck and j that this place is a great place to be.

I am not picking a fight with anybody.

I deleted my own posts to make more room for us, and I joined other posts together myself to make more room for more posts.

Big brother thing, I personally was just joking around in my response comment.

P.S. I was not doing anything wrong. I was not double posting. I was trying to help out yet I get the blame for starting things.


Joe

Im not even going to answer you joe

Good morning lady goddesses.I think it was a full moon some where last night. Or weird weather happenings. Could the aurora borealis be up to something? I don't know. All I do know it's a knew day with my very special friends that I'm thankful to have everyday.
This is a good site. I found it accidentally and I'm glad I did.
I have to go grocery shopping to day in this humidity. Oh my poor hair. Hehe

We haven't been in here that long Laura, I mean this tread have we? It just goes to show how great friends we are and we've added a few new ones like startover and akla. We had moonie and Rinna in the last one but hopefully we'll get them bad as well as tuscany.

Its half term here in the uk so I'm sure moomin is busy :D

We all gave something up and I'm not denying that I just get a wee bit cranky when I see the site bashed especially when people know better.

Ah well its Friday bens finished work for the day I'm making him stop at the chip shop on the way home I have an urge for chip buttys and red sauce :D

Chip buttys? Do I WANT to know what that is?

Chips (fat frys) in slices of bread chip buttys :D

CBW... I made the big brother comment as a joke, I wasn't bashing the site.. I was just playing around with Startover who seemed a little nervous about her post moving. I love this site and I have great respect for the administrators. I understand completely why they delete posts and so forth. Please don't think I was being disrespectful. So sorry you interpreted it that way.

Thank you Al xxx

Ohhhhhh, my computer innocence started something, I am so sorry. I really don't understand this whole thing. I have never gotten the double post thing. I honestly don't know what that is... Just tell me what to do and it WILL be done! You guys had a much better start than I did today! I lost my butt to some genuine video poker last night. Apperantly I am not a good player. My husband can go and put 5 bucks in and come out with dinner and drinks paid for and then a couple hundred on top of that! I come out 10 bucks in the hole! Hugs to all of you. I love this site too, and have always wondered how they go fromm post to post making sure the rules are followed, it must be a lot of work, THANK YOU GUYS WHERE EVER YOU ARE! I have told you before that I can't get too mushy but it just keeps coming to my mind that I love you guys. Thanks for all the great "talks" and spirit lifters! I need those! Oh, I did get the message about the "merge" but I don't know what that is either. Oh my gosh, I am so dumb. Back to the hugs, that is what I am good at!

You are too cute. You didn't cause anything it was just a misunderstanding. I need to be more careful in my humor sometimes.

I was not bashing anybody eighter, but for some reason it was taken that way. Never did say anything wrong. Mis communication obviously.

Oh Joe, I am sure it was. Of course you all have been great together! Anyone got a cigarette or a twinky? Isn't that what we are supposed to be talking about? Hugs, Start

If I have a choice I like Wendy's... Frostys are great along with their good ole Jr. bacon cheese burger! I honestly have a huge problem with cereal. That is my specialty, I know they have good for you stuff but I will add 16 table spoons of sugar to it anyway so why not just buy the already frosted, coated, smothered stuff? Ohhhhhh and doritos, if I could gain weight, I would be about 750 pounds, I have no self control with food, whether it be a wonderful healthy meal or a huge mixing bowl full of Captain Crunch! Hugs to you and your McDonalds, tomorrow is another day!

EDIT!!
Sorry I just looked and that must be the double post thing you were talking about.. Oh sh--! Sorry!

Ok Start I'm not having a go but you have just done it :D two posts in a row when you can just edit your last post by clicking the blue edit button try to remember for us next time poppet I can't believe we are on 104 pages already its just wizzing by :D

Yes, I edited my last one there at the bottom, I swatted myself in the butt and I will look before I type. Isn't it look before you wipe? Anyway yes, I am aware now! Happy days to us all. OH, and you and Mr. Evil need to give hugs, we need to get back to business! Smokes and twinkies remember?

Im not hugging him that's how baby's occur ;)

I wasn't going to tell you, but you have to "do it" to have babies. Hugging is for family and friends to comfort each other when thye are feeling bad. I have something really funny to tell you if you give up the hugs... I might not beable to say it on here and I know if I did tell my husbands face would turn bright red!

LOL bright red like a beetroot??

Yes, actually I might too. But I really need to say it out loud because I can't believe my "dirty sheets" is a true story! This will be the first and the last time I will post any part of my personal "night life"! You want to hear? I know Joe loves hugs?



Ready?

LOL me and Joe always argue it's a good job you don't see what we say to each other on msn we are rarely polite that's why I prefer talking to his wife ;)
{{{{{{{{{Joe}}}}}}}}}} but don't ever ask me to hug him again shudder lol

Start, believe me it was a real hug. Apparently she almost puked because of it. Lol Laura I am just joking.

Thank you for the hug laura, Start told me to say thank you.

Joe

LMAO start you need to buy the baby oil with a squirter it saves mishaps giggle trust me I've been there too ben gets very carried away ;)

Ok, now can you tell him to delete it. I am a little weird about posting things like that. I feel really weird about it! I will beg him if he needs me to. Loves to you CBW!!

Oh thank you Joe, what a little "helper" you are

Im glad he didn't, or I wouldn't have been able to enjoy that. Lol...
Now that everyone is almost friends again, I just want to add to the Wendy's post by Start, that the Vanilla Frosty floats with rootbeer are amazing!. mmm

Also in response to Start's babymaking comment... have you seen what was posted by another member about how to tell if someone's been circumsized lets just say it involved the terms "wee wee", helmet, and turtleneck lol... I nearly fell of the chair laughing... I can't find the post, I think it was deleted... but it was hilarious...

Uhhh... Hello, my name is Jason... aaaaand Im a quitter. Its been 3 weeks since I last quit.

hello jason 10x at the same time!! Hahahahaha

Welcome aboard jason you can stop by hear and witter away when ever you feel the need to light up :D

10X AT THE SAME TIME!!! HAHAHAHAHA

Am I missing something? :confused:

Yes. Welcome to the club I am 6 weeks and counting!

Al I'm going to kick your butt look what you just did lol

Alkaline, I thought I would be a crack up and say Hello Jason like a AA meeting you know 10 people in a circle and everyone introduces themselves as an addict and then all of them say Hello... I think Dr.Drizzle was mocking our little corner but I am not sure. Sorry DR.DRIZZLE if you really are a quitter, GOOD JOB!


EDIT::::::::
Yes alkaline, you just double posted. You know what happens then don't you? We were all just now starting to forget all that crap!

By the way... with the exception of my 2 drags last week...

Today marks 6 months for me.

Im on two days lol

You both are the coolest! I am on, 25 days! No worries I sucked in someone else's smoke on accident and I did't seem to want one but I wasn't grossed out either!

EDIT:::::::::
Hey CBW does everyone else know your secret but me? Or are we still nagging you?

IM sorry... I didn't even realize I had done it... im so bad... goes and waddles to her corner... Great job synnen!! And good job CBW! LOL, the first days are the hardest!

Edit...

I did it again and then caught myself... Jeeze!! So here is the post I deleted...

I like to nag..

(see my problem is that someone says something while I'm typing and then I get to read it and I want to respond and forget that I just did it. And to top it off my computer caches so sometimes my post isn't even showing yet depending on if I hit refresh or not.. lol.)

Hehehehehe bad Al into the corner with you and you stand there for a minnute of every year of your life ;)

Man that's almost a half hour...

Almost? Dang alkaline, I am a little jealous!

Yep I'm a youngin... you can all give it to me... everyone else does... Fr. Chuck wsa amazed I was such a young mom... I told him there were younger ones here.. lol.

Yeah can you give him my name? I would like to feel that young again. What the heck am I talking about 33 in July is not too bad, OK here I go. In a humble way I will congratulate myself: good husband, (still married) great children, 4 of the gosh darn things, good inlaws, a roof over my head, a dumb ole dog, 2 cats, and a new pair of shorts that look mighty good ( now that I buy the long ones) HAHAHAHHAHAH

Lol well you go standover there my girl and you be quiet ;) its OK poppet you aren't that much younger than me ;)

Im nearly 25... BTW CBW I love the term poppet... never heard it before meeting you.. but I like it... lol..

The pregnancy/new motherhood corner is quiet today... I think I scared them all off yesterday... lol... that's the only place I really like to hover...

I can see how Fr_Chuck can feel that way about you, you are very grown up and mature, good job!

Ive got 5 years on you but that's nothing ;) Poppets a very english phrase just imagine my sweet english accent says hello poppet :D giggle don't laugh too much id hate for you to pee your pants

HAHAHA, I imagine you and curly ben living on a little dirt road, with you and yours playing in the tiniest front yard with a little cottage and there is lot's of old moss growing on it. Just like in the movies. Roses growing on you litle white fence, ohhhh be quiet let me think what I want...

Yes I see the little cottage in "Holiday" where Kate Winslet lived... so quaint... or even the flat in "Notting hill" with the happy garden behind it and the bench... probably looks nothing like that... but you probably would be surprised what I live in too... people tend to think KY is full of trailers lol... and shotgun shaks.

LOL no little cottage I'm afraid we live in a terraced house with a 200ft garden that does have a little white picket fence though :D Even though saying that we are only 4 minnutes from a huge wood and 20 from the sea.

I want to live by the sea instead of the stinkin' river. All the fish there have 8 eyes and limbs.

We are in southampton where the titanic sailed from :D

Alkaline, I live by the river and the sea is my favorite place in the whole wide world. Although when this summer is all said and done, I will at least have a wonderful swimmin pool for the hot a-- summers! Yes KY, You havesn't hung any fake flowers have you?
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I know I know! I just deleted it!

Only in my head start only in my head giggle

Well, I see everyone's been busy chatting up everyone. I missed allot. But no worries, I can catch up.
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{JOE}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} are we friends again?

No... no fake flowers. We use the real things here... lol. I like to go to the lake for the summer... almost like the ocean. At leat the one we go to... its got waves and everything. But not quite as pretty.

CBW - Do you and CB go and do the whole Rose and Jack "im flying" thing? I totally would!

I like the Olympic Peninsula and Kallaloch better than Friday Harbor, personally. Fewer people and not as dirty

I like the UMPQUA river, the only one that if a shark was to come and get me, I would be able to see it first, so clean and clear, ohhhh it is beautiful! You guys buy UMPQUA icecream right? Mmmmmmmm

I have never heard of it. Im on the Ohio. We don't swim there...

Come and visit me when we are more settled and up the river more. We actually live on the McKinzie River but I like to go camping on the UMPQUA!! Dustin has a boat but I don't dare leave the land!

EDIT:::::::: what does he think I am, a fish??

EDIT:::::::::OH I could have triple posted but didn't! It is beautiful here and I think I need to eat so soon or later you will have to see me again! Hugs to you all.

I love being on he boat... we go to Nolin for the summer. Its warm and peaceful.

6 more greenies and I get a little box!! Yay!!

Morning People hope you all have lovely weekends xxxxxxxxxx

Woo hoo I'm babysitting at 70o in the morning... lol... had to be here at 630, my little one was like.. what the heck, mom's up before 9?

Hello everybody,

Hope you all have good weekends too.

Oh, Laura. It is too too early in the morning but we are making a drive to visit the in - laws. For breakfast. Guess what, hour and a half drive. Somebody said to me that I should get them to come up here more often. I said no way, if I do that they will want to move up here and we would never have any peace. Lol

Anyway, Guess I will tough it out and put some good music on and hope Joshua does not get too cranky because of the change in routine.

I can see his gums bubbling up. All the gums on the top are all bubbling up and swollen. I swear to you it looks like all his teeth are going to pop out all at once.

Guess I should get the whiskey out, Just kidding.

Love you all.

Joe and Superbaby family.

P.S. At 8 months everybody is telling us he looks like he is a year old. When he sleeps now, he sleeps on his side and has he's legs and arms spread out like he wants to fly. Soon I tell my superbaby, soon.

Joe

AWWWW, Joe, music always helps me on drives. Little Joshua could use a little pain reliever. We never gave it to our kids unless they had a fever or we knew the pain was more than a baby pain. I like the whiskey thought for the gums that is! My grandma did it for all of us and all 6 of her kids. I never tried it but I did try the homeopathic teething tablets, they didn't work for my son but they work for other kids. Grady was our first, 12 years ago, he will be 13 in July, I cannot believe he is an old kid now. I miss him. Oh well they are all precious and I can't just squish them down to make them stay small, right?

For the drive, have you ever just brought a roll od tape and given him a long piece and see what he would do with it? I used to make tape balls and the kids loved it. I forgot about that, I should start doing that again, four kids bickering is very annoying.
I am up 2 hours early and I don't know what to do with myself!

Hehehehehe I'm half asleep I've been a lazy bum today :D and I've loved it hope your all well.

Joe enjoy the attention you get when you reach the in laws I'm sure breakfast will be worth it.
Al what in heavens name are you babysitting that early for??
Start mmmmm I like the ball idea but I think she will just get cross because it won't come off be amusing to us though lol

Well my pea finally got her Thing 2 out of bed, LOL, isn't it almost time to get back into bed?

Her father had an estate sale today.

Im pooped I could sleep forever lol

Me too... 3 kids is far different from one... lol. esp. before 10 o clock..

Yes, you guys take a good rest. Hugs and sweet dreams!

Hey my sweet pea, is that secret getting to you on a Saturday afternoon? LOL

Oh, yea, you like my jitterin boobies? LMAO

Ohhh you get her while she's down!

That's one way of putting it by 1.30 in the afternoon I just feel avsolutely hanging lol

Al you ae mad 3 of them before 9am mmmmm

I have 4 everyday 24/7 it is easy with a big closet and some duck tape. LOL

Hehehehehehe now that sounds just perfect :D

Al you ae mad 3 of them before 9am mmmmm

I don't understand? It could be the sleep deprevation...

Well Laura, you were not kidding about all the attention. They would not let us leave. We got there at 10 : 30 am, and we just got back at 11 : 00 pm.

Everybody, it was unbelievable even with the break in routine he was very excited and happy and loved the attention from everybody. There were six of us all together giving Joshua all the attention. The one cousin was encouraging Joshua to walk. Stood him up and leaned him forward while hold his arms a bit and kept telling him to step. He eventually did walk towards him.

He loves the dancing and spanish music. Spanish loves the dancing and loves the music so we listened to lots of spanish music and Joshua was bouncing up and down and moving his hips and kicking his feet. They think he is going to be a dancer. Lol

Yes, it was a very good visit but very tiring too, especially after driving. Kept the air cool in my face and music on and had coffee before I left.

Hope you all are having a great weekend.

Start - Excellent idea for playing.

J9 - like your titties, well not yours, but the cows. Lol

Al- how did the baby sitting go?


Well I am going to be an idiot and stay up and watch a movie before going to sleep. Sleep deprived, being my own fault. Oh, well.

If I slept and slept how could I have time to plan to take over the world. Hee Hee.

Joe

Hahahahahaha all grandparents are the same Joe ;) you get absolutely floaded with attention and its lovely but its great to get away too lol

Laura, we were actually at my wife's Aunts place. So it was the aunt and three cousins lol. They are all spanish and they just go all crazy over the baby lol.

The grandparents unfortunately not so much in the picture, on both sides of the family.

We have plenty of other family members to make up for it. I was going to mention why, but I guess all that matters is the people that are in his life are full of love.

(;

Joe

It doesn't matter who they are your quite right :)

Been busy I'm emptying the kitchen hehehehehe what a nightmare I had no idea I had so much stuff

Yeah thankfully we didn't have it done last month as the landlord had to remove half the ceiling to find a leek in the bathroom lol so he is hoping to do the new ceiling in the next two weeks then its time to sort a date for the kitchen witch to be honest I just want it dne and out the way.

Good Morning Ladys and Joe,

Ive woken up with a raging headache oh the joys of the secret ;)

Hope your all well and had lovely weekends xxxxxxxxxx

It was a really good weekend. Except for last night. Joshua screamed like bloody murder in his sleep. Scared the ---- out of us both. It was louder and high pitched never heard it before. OMG. I guess, it could have been gas pain, or teeth or both but it was so scary.

Other then that,

Good morning everybody.

Laura if your starting to get headaches from keeping that secret you know what to do. Lol

Well I hope that Ty, figures out that you stole his credit card to get yourself a new kitchen and that being on television is not going to be that much of a secret now, is it. Lol

P.S. Yesterday I discovered the art of making homemade pie, and it actually came out pretty good. Yummy yummy.

How was everybody else's weekend??

Oh my word Joe if ty was here to sort my kitchen I would have a fit with my legs in the air lol

I hope your kitchen comes out very nice. I love the kitchen, it is where we all gather and no matter how many comfy chairs are in the family room, we are always sitting on the hard kitchen chairs or standing up talking... Maybe I should put the living room furniture in there?? Naw, I wouldn't dare. Good morning everyone! What a nice long weekend in the sun and water. Have a wonderful day!

The kitchen will be lovely its just the mess I'm not looking forward too but it won't take that long as there isn't that much of it.

Hope your das are going OK lots of hugsxxxx

I can't make a pie crust that works to save my life. I never quite get the right consistancy.

I'm so tired of being insanely busy. I don't mind keeping busy, but this is just nuts.

I need a 210 day weekend.

What is making you so crazy, Synnen? What would you do for 210 days, you would get bored and run out of money. You got to work it is IN YOU!! Hee hee

I'd probably catch up on sleep for about 30 of them, do some baking and cooking and playing in the kitchen some, have a clean house every day, maybe learn how to make a pie crust, get my pictures catalogued, my doll house painted, my plants transplanted, my house dusted... stuff like that.

I'd also get back to doing volunteer work, which lately I'm just too exhausted to do.

It's just work that has me stressed... how sad is that?

Very sad. I didn't know you are working on a doll house, how sweet is that? All of this stuff you say you would do, well I have to agree I would too. Volunteering is something I need to make time for. Darn I wish this was your job!

Hehehehehehe syn have you built the dolls house from scratch?

I got the dollhouse from Mr. Synn our first Christmas together. It's been in storage many years, as we've moved around so much. I don't even have the outside painted completely yet! (painting trim is HARD when it's tiny). I have a few pieces of furniture that I've picked up over the years, and I have the floors for 2 rooms, and I have the shingles, but still need to stain them and put them on. I figure it will take the rest of my life to actually FINISH this dollhouse, but it's a labor of love, too.

Very, very cool... I think it is a wonderful labor! Try and have a wonderful day today, when someone pisses you off just smile and say thank you. If that doesn't work, do you remembemr where you put the margarita mix in the break room?

Someone stole the tequila, so the margarita mix ain't even going to help. Plus, I had too many southern comfort old fashioneds this weekend.

I'm crazy, and y, and insane... but I'm not smoking!

Hehehehehe my mum built a lovely dolls house we bought it for a her 50th 9 years ago the roof is what got her all those little wooden shingles hehehehehe

Yeah... I'm not looking forward to that (the shingles).

The big thing for me right now is that it's already assembled. Painting the trim when it's already attached has been HORRIBLE.

I went to a dollhouse exhibition once, and you wouldn't believe the things people do with them. Running water and fountains and electricity with little bitty switches and outlets... just amazing

Oh I know its just crazy but flipping amazing too I think it took her about 3 months of constant building and tinkering to complete it but then she is a real crafty type of person she used to make rag dolls for a living when we were kids.

I never got much into dollhouses. I used to make dresses for my barbies and baby dolls though.

Hi, I have a job today and I don't want to do it! It needs to be done! I don't want to do it. Have I already said that? Anyway, how ar you guys today? I forgot to tell Synnen, that I am proud of her for not smoking any more earlier today! Good job. I need to get my stupid budget together and it is confusing the hell out of me, I never have had one before and I guess today is a very good day to start... I don't want to do it though!

It sux, but it is worth it.. man, everything changed once we got on a budget... Dave Ramsey changed my life..

I read his book. I am having a hard time getting my husband to believe in the "system' dave uses. Do you do it by the book? I changed my question because it was inappropriate. I just got everything organized, now for the when and how to do it, the first month is always the hardest.

Yep... well not for daycare or bills or mortgage, because those are automatic drafts, but We use the envelopes for groceries, clothing, "fun Money", doctors bills, gas, etc...

Ok I am eating lunch right now and I am calling my husband to buy envolopes and to swing by the bank... This might just work. This day is getting better and better, and my lunch is fabulous! Hus to ALKALINE!! The little angel!

Just remmeber, when its gone, its gone... thats the hardest part. You will be tempted to refill those suckers... and remember it takes at least 3 months for a budget to really get into the swing of things. You will have to tweak it a few times to get it running smoothly... but after a few months, you will love it and never go back. Good luck hun, we are almost debt free now. Just the car (about 2 grand), and student loans left. Then we start going strong on the house. I plan to have it paid off in 10 years... which hopefully will happen in 8... lol.

I don't see any money at all ben deals with everything as he is the only earner :D

I have a small set of goals and that is to finally be able to pay all of our monthly bills on time. Then the truck! Thanks, the advice will not be taken lightly. I am head strong about this budget crap! Have a wonderful day!

I dont see any money at all ben deals with everything as he is the only earner :D
It is the same in my families situation. I am the one that deals with financial.

I dont see any money at all ben deals with everything as he is the only earner :D


Um to risk the wrath of my fellow goddesses cbw, but I have to disagree with you but I didn't want to do it by reputation. You say Ben is the only earner, as a stay at home wife for a while, I have to ssay this. You cook, clean, Millie doena't take care of her self. You take care of cute little Hawwee, the garden, the house, grocery shop, and whatever else I can't think of at the moment. Trust me the list goes on and on and on... as my fellow goddesses can attest to. Plus who takes care of Ben when he's not feeling good? Twice in 2 years I've kept mr. chippers in stable health after being in the hospital twice. Kept the home front going while he was in Iraq, and kept the kids from driving me crazy. You do more in a day that most hubbies do in a week. If the average house wife were to get paid for what they do at home. (not counting the ancillary errands like docotr appts, cleaners, post office trips and occasionally keeping huuby calm when he can't find that particular tie. Espceially when its around his neck) we would make thegross income of 125,000 a year.
Oh yeah as far as money in my household goes, he drops off the check and says here you go. He wouldn't know what was in the bank if the check book bit him in the arse.( I hate this part cause when a letter comes he says why didn't I pay this.) he's lucky he don't eat the letter.
But as I slowly try to regain my sanity from a very hectic weekend, I want you my fellow goddess to see just how much you do and to consider yourself a wage earner in your own right.

Now I'll go back into my corner and mumble to myself again.


Chippers

That's what I meant too, calm down women I'm fully aware of what I do but I have no need to actually have any money I don't shop or anything he does it all wheres the problem with that?? Im sorry if you don't like the way I live but I'm happy so tough really.
I don't get involved it because I have more than enough to do and I believe it's the husbands deal to provide for his family and if that means taking care of the bills then so be it christ I'm not going to stop him its one less thing I have to do.
He even does all the ironing and we share the house work I'm sorry but we are a lot more eqaul than any of you know.
So please don't judge me you have NO right to do so.

Oh sweetie, I'm so very sorry. I wasn't judging you. I have no right to do that. I was just pointng out the value of the housewife. Iwish Mr. chippers was more like Ben. It's hard dealing with everything and coming up to task when he feels something wasn't done when it was.
I would never ever offend you or anyone else. I'm not like that. I see a lot of women having to bow to their husbands will. Wvewn those who work. I once saw two women walk behind their husbands with their heads bowwed. It was so demeaning to watch it broke my heart. One husband(I use the term loosely with him. He was more like a task master) sit on his fat arse while his wife emtpied a huge grocery cart. He only got up to help her when he saw every woman and man around him stair at him.

The only thing I disagreed with was the earner part. As a stay at home housewife, we do more work than the average man does at a full time job. Maybe I didn't explain it properly. I'm sorry Laura, I wouldn't hurt you for the world.

In my neighborhood they have a name for stay at home mms like me. FEMS formerly employed mothers and I hate it. But I do it for the kids and watch them grow. You don't get this time back again.

I would never judge you or anyone else. As you are right No one has the right to judge anyone. To value the person you are yes we can do that, but not judge.

Ive always considered myself lucky to have ben he isn't a typical guy and if anyone bows to anyone he bows to me everything we do is eqaul any dr's aps or hospital aps he takes the time off and takes us I get driven everywhere.
He does the weekly shop he does the ironing he does all the vacuming he has never been one to come home and say I've done a days work I'm going to sit on my and do nothing he comes in he cooks millies dinner and he baths her and I just get her ready for bed then I have a bath while they have her bedtime milk and watch a cartoon before he puts her to bed.
Nothing in this house is one sided and I get a little fed up when people think its normal for a women to do absolutely everything I've never been that meek and I never will.

Me either. My husband comes home and everyone has to be quiet. I understand his need to collect himself but there are better ways to do than make 2 active kids be silent. He wants to hear no problems and doesn't really handle the surprises well. But other than that we do well together.
I've been sick for a while and he's picked up the slack for me. But I hear the grumbling. I'm also fed up with people who judge housewives. Talking down to them because they don't bring home a paycheck.
When they hear I used to work, the comment is Well you're going back right? I get defensive when people undermine what we do. That's all I was talking about in my post. I think my irratation got the better of me and it my sentiment didn't come out the way I wanted it to.
Plus I doubt very much those insensitive people who feel able to comment on what I do could really do my job as a nurse anyway. I did it for 21 years and I wanted a break. I needed one. Still I'm looked at as irresponsible for walking a way and wanting to be an at home mother for a while. Mr. chippers doesn't defend me either. Other than to say, ahh she's got it easy. No I don't. I still have to work through the reasons I walked away in the first place. But right now I'm fine with my housewife duties.
I came across as judging because I was judging myself after letting the moral majority get to me. Thank you for your honest reply. I wasn't judging you just defending the housewife. Not just you but all of us who are content with our choices.

Its just important to remember we are all different and every women deals with there home lives differently.
I could say the same about my job there's a few here id like to see crumble in a pro kitchen for 18 hours or run a bar on your own dealing with the drunks no ones job is easy but its our choice and we generally do it because we love it.
Enough on this subject its got way out of hand I'm far to hormonal and ill happily rip any one apart at the moment even ben lol

Knock knock... anyone home :).

Good Morning one and all.

Spoke with Beautiful J last night and once again, she misses her other pea in her pod. Dad is still holding on. Keep the prayers coming.

Me on the other hand, well we rushed Mom in law to the hospital on Sunday. Maybe a mini stroke or just a warning. See, she's a stubborn gal and is just so proud of the fact that at 82 she is only on an aspirn. Although every time she is seen by a Doc, her pressure is through the roof. Well, she talks herself out of it and they deduct that she has white coat blood pressure. As my head spin off my shoulders.

Well, low and behold Sunday she had a little forgetful spell and now is in the hospital and is being given some BP meds. FINALLY! I told her that she is just going to have to concede, that she needs the BP meds.

Anyway, stress levels are pretty high and my doc doubled my dose of my med yesterday.
I yi yi.

I hope all of you are well.

Hubby and I had a little rought over Paris Hilton LMAO. Hee hee. We drive in work together and as he was dropping me off he said, now get your naïve arse out of the car grrrrrrr. But I think he said it with love.

We've been doing 1/2 days of work and then running to the hospital. When you have a loved one in there, it is so important to be there and catch the doctors for their 5 minute visit. If you miss them, you spend nearly a whole day trying to figure out what is going on.

I tell you what though, if God made anything better than nurses, well I am sure he did, but boy oh boy, how I love the nurses. They are so amazing, have so much to do and yet are so caring and kind.

Well, I hope all of you are doing well.

Much love and many hugs

AAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWW I miss my pea too bless her.

Blimey sounds like you have had a right few days hunny sending you lots of hugs xxxxxxx

Saturday I had my youngest son in the ER and my oldest hidng behind the couch. They were playing rough and my little guy got hurt. My older one was sure he was going to be arrested for hurting him. Tried to reassure him that they don't arrest little boys for spraining their brothers little finger. But I do believe it put the fear of god in him. He's been towing te line. I think the fact he had his allowance suspended for a month helped too.

I'm glad your mom in law saw the light. Not too many do and their attacks get worse. It's tough running back and forth between work and someone in the hospital. Just don't spread yurself too thin. Or we'll be pealing you off the walls. Hehe.

The boys have a half day of school today due to elections whoopeeee! I'm so glad they do voting in schools.
Oh man this mood I'm in makes me unfit for human cmpany. It's not me and I hate it. Maybe a little retail therapy will help. I want to go to the candy store in the mall and get jelly bellies. A little sweet therapy that is. Maybe sugar withdraw is my problem. I even bought taco bell for lunch yesterday and didn't eat it. I think the mily way candy bar had something to do with it.
I got the okay from the neurologist to go back to the gym. As long as I start slow and build it up that was nice to hear.
So off I go and mean that in all tenses. Hehe.

Have a lovely day my fellow goddesses.

Chippers

Oh my goodness make sure you get pear flavoured ones they are just my most favourite ever yummmm

Awww thanks CBW and Chippers -

Hoping she comes home today - but I don't know. I doubt it.

Wow Chippers you had your time of it as well. It's amazing that boys don't get hurt more than they do.

Whenever I am over my 3 nephews house, I just hold my breath. But they bounce right back up, cheeks all flushed mind you, but my goodness, scares the life out of me :)

Many hugs to you all

Mmmm... strawberry daiquari... mmm... or strawberry shortcake. I love those things.

I'll take a strawberry daquiri!

Good Morning everyone, I can see you had a lot to talk about. If I could I want to add my two cents. Staying at home and getting my chores done is very important to me. Having my husband work his butt off and taking all 4 kids out on an outing 3 or 4 times a week is important to me too! I clean he does the other stuff... It is all worth it cause you don't want to see my home after he cleans it. (I have high expectations)
I am glad to hear everyone is in touch with J_9. God bless her and her family
Allheart, good think mom is fine and hope she takes the meds for you. (and herself) AND what is this about Paris Hilton? Yes Nurses are always there for you when you need them, aren't they?
CBW, I hope you have a wonderful day. I think it is wonderful that Ben is so willing to help!
Chippers, Sorry about your little trip to the hospital, I love the life lesson for your boys though. I am glad it was only a srain... I tell the kids if they misbehave in Walmart then I will call the Walmart police. They believe me! Go agead with the Jelly Bellies!
Alkaline, your husband knows deep down that you do a wonderful job. He just can't admit it!
My husband loves what I do and I him! That is what we need to remember!
You all have a safe and wondeful day! Hugs to all of you, Start

Thanks Startover.

Synnen... Ill make you a virgin one... if that's all I can have that's all you get too... lol.

I usually don't drink, but last night I had a vodka and pineapple juice and I loved it! Dustin and I watched the Departed. He never stays awake for movies but this was one that he did. Movies do something to me and my emotions so I am all his if we watch one together. I love movies and books. I bought around thirty of them at garage sales, it might take me thirty years to find the time to read them, but I am addicted to getting deals on books. You can't beat buying a book for $.25 to a dollar! See you.

Yep I miss drinks... it seems as though the last few nights we have been someplace where someone offered me wine unknowingly... I love wine, its my weakness so I has been very hard... we go tasting all over...

I watched that movie just the other night... pretty good. My favorite place in the whole world is half priced books. I got some amazing deals there.

Anyone in here know what causes a baby-like kick at 10/11 weeks? Its driving me crazy?

I haven't drank any type of alcahol for 5 years :D

I love mixed up fruit juice though and cola lol I'm a cola addict :(

Al have you got wind?? And remember second baby tummy muscles are a lot less slack than they were its quite possible you are just feeling it move.

*edit* if the feeling was on the left side it was more than likely wind

Anyone in here know what causes a baby-like kick at 10/11 weeks? Its driving me crazy? [/QUOTE]


You have been pregnant before so you know what it feels like. Or it could be GAS??

No its not gas... I know what it feels like :P... I think maybe I'm having a muscle spasm or something...

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if the feeling was on the left side it was more than likely wind

No its below my belly button in the middle

Remember that I have been watching 3 foster boys for daycare? Well, looks like either they stay with me or they get moved to a different fostor care house, theirs was noted as "dangerous".. Not in my opinion, but in DHS's. I don't know what to do. I already have four kids and I am NOT going to let them go, thye have been through a lot. Sooooo many people around me (not my husband) are going to say don't do it and my gut says don't let them go. I don't know what to do, I am so confussed and upset.

I'm so sorry you are in that situation. I would say, if you are able... do what your heart says...

I know what is in my heart. Thanks

Start : good luck sweetheart you're in my prayers.

Synnen: Im sorry, I didn't think before I typed... you can have a double - mine plus yours..

Oh blimey start what a situation but I know what I would do and that would be to keep them safe, my sister in laws minder is also a foster carer and she has the sweetest two young boys with her at the moment one is a little chinese boy that doesn't speak english and the other is a dear little lad that is just to darn friendly he thinks nothing of walking up to a strainger and kissing them and saying I love you witch yeah is sweet but flipping worrying.
I know you will do what's right hugs hunny xxxx

It sounds like, (from the last call I got) it will be long term and they want to find someone more stable. ( we are moving in 3 months) I had to be up front and honest. I told them that if they could give me a FOR SURE answer on when they would go home with mom. They are trying to work it out right now. Good luck to me and the boys!

Oh bless it just makes you want to throw your arms out and shelter them doesn't it poor little souls.
You will be fine start I have no doubt about that :D

Me either. I can't imagine what it would be like to foster children. I would want to adopt every one, I'm sure. It must be so difficult to see them come and go. A lot of strength and love in foster parents. I don't know that I would be strong enough myself.

Good afternoon, Good evening. Just want to say hi to everyone here.

Joe

Hi to you joe. How's superbaby?

Hello! Hope all is well, how is superfamily?

Alkaline what happens in 47 days? The baby? I didn't think you were that far along.
I am not taking the boys, Dustin has called and stressed some serious concerns. I agreed and the boys are going to be placed with another family tomorrow! I am very angry and sad, I am not sure which is worse but I will cry on Dustins shoulder when he gets home. Hugs to all of you. Giving hugs always feels good.

Start,

You are one special Angel and I am sending you lots of Angel kisses. You truly are just a shining star. Try not and be too sad. I have a feeling this new family may need the boys
In their lives and hearts and the boys will do just fine.

Lots of Angel kisses for Start... http://www.choiceshirts.com/images/A5/67/A5671B-md.jpg

Harry Potter Book 7... the 5th movie is in 40 days... im a nerd.

I am praying for your family.

Thanks so much, I hope they can handle them. Not too soft, not too hard, you know what I mean. I have put a lot into these litte stinkers and I love them very much! I hope I get the chance to stay their daycare provider, I will miss them. I think they could use a little stability, I would be the only one left to give it to them. Love to all three of them! I will get over the saddness as long as I know they are happy and well. Now I am going to slip my phone number and a note in all three of their back packs saying they can call me ANYTIME!!

There you go! That's the spirit!.

Al, you are a nerd aren't you... I love chickens but I don't put that on my license plate. Nerd! Hee hee. Now that I think about it, I just got a cute little car and maybe I should get that for my plates.. hmmmmmmm See what you people do to me?

Haha... I forgot I told you about that... I get made fun of all the time about my car. Not only do I have the plate, but I also have a sticker that says "trust snape" and another that says "Save Harry, Save the world" lol... I wanted one that looked like those college stickers you put in your back window that said "Hogwarts school of witchcraft and wizardy"... but they don't make them... im beyond nerd... Im like the oldest "kid" all dressed up at the book release parties... but I bring my son too... so its not THAT bad... lol... yeah it is...


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I just notcied I got an extra greeny... when did that happen?

My son, we bought the whole set for him but he isn't a dork like his mama, I love to read and he doesn't. He never even finished one, he has #1-3 for Harry Potter books and then a big one in the hardback. If you wanted them I could send them. You probably already have them but just thought maybe your son would like HIS OWN set... Hee hee

Anyway I am just trying to steer myself away from the boys for a bit while everyone is resting. I was on a different thread about rap, maybe I should use this time to write a song. Funny huh? I could rap a song aobut the little stinkers I have grown to love!

Oh bugger start but everything happens for a reason right?? Chin up we love you.

Al you hit 100 greenys you gain a box for every 100 you get :D

I don't think I could ever rap... lol... its just not in me... Oh I have the entire set of adult harry potter books, and he has the entire set of child harry potter books... hardcover of course... im telling you, I'm obsessed... you don't want to know the name of my sons favorite animal...

LOL I have all the first editions of the adult covers I used to work in a book shop I rang my old manager last week and he is holding me a copy of the next one.

Woo hoo you hit the greenies! Yes you are goinga little too far, but hey, do you have about 175-200 ceramic chickens spread through out your house? Didn't think so! LOLOLOLOL

Oh my word what's the fascination with chickens then??

No - I have no statues or dolls or posters or anything... im not as bad as some. I know a woman who actually has a real owl named hedwig... her son dresses up as Harry and carries him on his shoulder... lol..

My mom has pigs everywhere...

I am tasteful about it. I love the antique ones. I have an old chicken coupd that the bigger wooden ones are in. Oh geeze, I am a nerd too. I am in love with the country look. Dustin would never let me go too crazy and he doesn't like clutter. Boy did he mary the wrong lady! I forgot to tell him about my facination with clutter and how to make it look good. I am clean but cluttery.

I have an obsession with tuscan landscapes... my entire home is decorated in italian décor. My kitchen has the whole vinyard thing, grapes, wine, etc. and I have tuscan paintings everywhere.

I think that is great. If I get a piece of furniture from a garage sale I paint it and then sand it down to look old and cool.

My obsession is whales. I have a few statues and posters. Mostly sweat shirts. I collect them from where ever I go to watch them. The ones that don't fit anymore I'm making into a blanket. My mother collected chickens all around the house she had chickens. My father thought he was in the hen house and not just the dog house. Hehe.

AL for the fluttering, it could be the stretching of the muscles ans skin your feeling. The little one is too small to feel movement. If you're feeling any discomfort or start to spot call your doctor asap. Lower pelvic discomfort is assiciated with the streching of the broad ligaments of the pelvis to accommodate the growing baby. If you're really concerned talk with your doctor. (I had mine on speed dial for the entire time of my pregnancy) he was glad once I delivered.

Start, I'm sorry to hear about the boys. I'm praying you can keep them for the daycare as they'll be in your life. I do so hate the way they keep pulling kids from one foster home to another or give them back to the parents who are unfit to care for them in the first place. You'er right no wonder so many kids are screewd up once they are adults. I agree that kids no matter their troubles should not be labelled. It only follows them and it gives them a bad feeling about themselves. No kid deserves that. I admire your strength in being a foster parent. I've always wanted to do it but as why husband points out, I can't give up a cat I fostered, how would I give up a child when they came knocking at the door. I would want to adopt but in Jersey its tough getting a child permanently. They do their best to put the family back to gether which is often not the case.

CBW, my favorite drink is a seabreeze. I rarely drink but when I do it's that. When I was pregnant I drank virgin breezes. I substituted the vodka for seven up. As for the jelly bellies, I like the grapefruit ones and I like the pears and tangerene. I got a nice supply today to keep me well sugared up for a while.

Allheart and syn, hugs and kissses to both of you. I hope you are having a good day and not too hectic for you.

I need to share something with you that made me feel very good. Outside my front door My son and I noticed a caterpillar making a coocoon and the thought of the changing into a butterfly . Then in the tree infornt of my house my father and I noticed a robin biulding a nest. As of today she completed her nest and would lay her eggs. Again new life. In my back yard I noticed the two baby groundhogs playing looking so cute. I thought about the new life around me and had to stop think how lucky I am to see such wonders. That in all this chaos of the world life still thrives in its abundance. I also think about you, my fellow goddesses and think again how lucky I am. That each of us comes from all around the world and we share our families with each other, and our lives. I feel that we are as close as that bird, caterpiler and groundhogs are to my front door.
How incredibly lucky I am that we are lucky to have found each other in a world of chaos. If we think about it, all that is good can not only survive but make the world a much more beautiful place.

Now I think I'll go and eat my jelly bellies.

Hehehehehe I love jelly bellys I really do :)

My secret start got leeked on the loony bin so I may as well say it here too Im pregnant lol there said it I'm seeing my midwife tomorrow and I'm going to try and wangle an early scan :D.

Its 11pm I'm tierd and hot I'm off to bed girlys love you xx

I Have not read everything but hope all is well with everybody. I also believe everything that happens, happens for good reason. We all have difference experiences to go through.

Hard day at work today. Major kink in my neck and shoulders.

Got some teething liquid, and Ovol which is to help with Gas for Joshua. The last few nights he has been waking up after hour or two of sleep screaming and crying. Very scary. Eighter it is gas, teeth or both. It is very scary experience, but apparently this happens with babies and it is completely normal from what I am being told.

Everybody here is great and we are blessed to get to know every one of you.

I wear my heart on my sleeve. Sometimes I might act like a tough guy, but deep down I care about all.

Joshua is saying hello:

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I was wondering... I will be making a jouirnal from this point forward! First entry, CBW loves Jelly Bellies!

LOL we got a message from Joshua woo hoo sweet baby boy :D
I liked yours too Joe ;)

Have great days everyone I'm just tidying up ready for midwives visit.

Hey guys are you around? Everything is still up in the air with the boys! They are working on getting mom a place to live that is suitable and let her have the boys, I really honestly hope it works. I put my phone number in their back packs and a family picture with all of our names and our number again on the back. I will see them again, it is just I want them to know I will be there for them even if we can't see each other. Ok, I am done now. Hope you all are feeling gooooooood! I will get to my chores done and get this day in gear!! Hugs to all!

Start - I wish the best for everyone.

Joe

Oh start hunny that's a real sweet thing to do they aren't going to forget you hunny xxxxxxx chin up lots of love and kisses xxxxxx

Yes thank you Joe. Hey I have been meaning to tell you that maybe, just maybe you should find a fine black stallion to put as your picture instead!! I think of that when I read your posts (brave and noble) and then bam I get the funk! How is super family? My family is doing wonderful and being real cool. Grades are up, husband is happy and daughter is too cute for her own good. Sounds pretty good to me. Have a great day. I need to sweep!


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Thanks CBW

I will be quite honest with you start - I think I have dragged out the dr.evil as far as it will go and I think I will make a change later today, I did it for a while just for the fun of it but now it is real old. Lol

Thank you so much for your thoughts. I am happy everyone is good. Everybody here is good too.

Joe

Yup, no problem. I think you all are wonderful! Go Joshua go!

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Oh my gosh Joe, that is beautiful. I love it, although we all will have to still think of you as Dr. Evil, we cannot forget that easily!

Not according to this person. Lol

This person did not like my advice. Waa Waa, Just kidding. CBW, I am not whining so do not worry. Lol

From what I hear, woman ontop position is the favorite amongst women. The reason is they can control how fast, how slow, how deep and so forth. Experimentation is key. I am surprised you have not experimented in several different ways. There are so many things that you can try. Please do not say anything about his little pee pee being on the small size. To be honest, most men are average size. It is not the size that matters but how you use it.

Joe
Comments on this post Gem07 (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/../members/gem07.html) disagrees: Sorry, JH, size DOES matter.

Wow Joe, OK, thanks

LOL well if I'm truethfull yes size does matter but not many women would be honest enough to tell a guy that giggle

I can't believe I just said that out loud

I will never comment on this subject my face got red just reading about it! Hugs to you all

LOL start you are just to sweet I'm giggling lots now

I've only know one size, so I wouldn't know...

Oh my Al what a fab thing to say, sadly I was no angel. But I will say what the say about black guys being bigger is a farse.

Oh, come on now. People talk about it all day.

Start - no comment. I want a comment. Truthful comment. Do not be a chicken now.

At least Laura was not afraid to speak up and comment. Lol

Now I think The Stallion, Will go and hide and pretend that most women do not think that way. Start - My wife can say the same thing as al.



Joe

OMGosh CBW I cannot believe you just said that, I am staying in this heat till it's over

LOL what I'm only telling you the trueth

*edit* I never slept with one but I do know its actually a very funny story

So CBW, you have proof and proven that it is only a myth.

Maybe you should contact that show Myth busters and see if they want to test that theory.

Ok let me just tell you that my husband is WONDERFUL. I think just a while back I finally realized what I CAN DO. So saying that, it is not the size that MATTERS, but it can make a difference! OOOHHH LA LA!

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Myth Busters is one of my faves...

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No we will never ever ever tell a man that he is right. NEVER!

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How in the hell would you test that on myth busters. Ohhhhh you are dr.evil

LOL oh but funny, do you want to hear the story its not that crude

Only if it doesn't make me want to call my husband home early cause he is really busy!!

LOL well I had just finished a shift in a bar behind the bar serving drinks it was 12 midnight and me and the other girls decided we would go to our sister pub and go dancing there dj's were fab.
So we arrive as ever get ushered in because we were staff and go get drinks and start to boogy my friend looks up and says hell laura look how tall that guy is, there was a team of american basket ball players in bristol they were touring lol.
So we start boogying and this guy comes up to me taps me on the shoulder I turn round to be just level with the guys hips hell he was tall I couldn't dance with him it was silly so he sits me on a bar stool and dances round me now I don't know if tis some weird mating ritual or what but they next thing I know he has his woojit out and is trying to put it in my hand now bare in mind I'm 5ft really petite so my hands are tiny lol and so was his woojit.

Wow

To say I was shocked was an understatement lol he could well have been famous but I wasn't hanging around to find out lol I told the bouncers they were removed from the bar rather quickly

I am glad they were removed, what were removed their itty bitties or the guys?

LOL... this is why americans get the bad names... lol...

Yeah, my husband found me young, he was my high school sweetie. We've been together ever since. Met him when I was 16. We started dating when I was 17 and started our family when I was 20... lol... not that I was an angel or anything, my son was one when we got married... lol.

Knowing the bouncers both they were real protective over staff those guys it was nice to know you could go somewhere and feel safe they even used to take us girls home after the pub shut.

Where is Synnen when we need her?
Al, you are an angel!

Just because dr.evil does not show on the avator anymore. Does not mean that dr.evil has left the building. Oh, there will always be dr.evil in me.

By the way, Oh the myth busters x rated version. That will work especially if the show airs at 11 pm. It can be done.

Or you could also get pretend vaginas, and pretend penises. All different sizes and see what fits best. Or get everything hooked up to a pleasure meter and see what really does work and does not work.

Am I the only one that thinks all these things are possible.

OMGosh Joe, you are KILLING ME...

LOL Joe your obsessed its not really about size its about how you shake it but there are a lot of women that think otherwise lol

Yeah, what she said...
Obviously CB knows how to shake it! Look what he has done.

Look at what who has done? Who me? Dr.evil.

Wow, I make one post about somebodies question and it ballooned from there.

Did I say that right. Ballooned. I guess, that did not happen for you Cbw, were you kind of disappointed that a black man had a small penis?

Joe I was just so flipping shocked he had the audacity to even try that in the first place you could have knocked me off my bloody bar stool with a feather.
It does make me wonder mind you these well endowed guys if they are actually real lol

[QUOTE=Jesushelper76]Look at what who has done? Who me? Dr.evil.

NO you dope, Curlyben.
Silly, and yes you are still KILLING ME!

LOL curlyben is no disapointment giggle

He must not be cause I think when you shake it just right it results in a beautiful baby. I knew we would have to talk about this soon or later.

Need me for what?

You are doing just fine without me.

I knew you were listening, when you going to say something?

LOL... I can't even respond to the last few posts... rofl...

Hee hee hee, I think that we all know enough now, let get on with it!!

I've been peeking in off and on all day.

Just been too busy to respond much.

I do, however, want to point out that if you read back, I posted "you're pregnant" about CBW's secret almost immediately after she posted it.

Hehhehehehe ;) the midwife was lovely today she stayed for 2 hours chatting about the mayhem I caused last time it was funny I'm so glad the dr that delivered millie has gone though I hated him with a pasion he had small persons disease lol he so knew I hated him too gggrrrrr but he is gone and ill get my nice gyno all to himself without his trainee


*edit* ggggrrrr syn I can't rep you but yes you did and you were just a clever poppet ;)

Synnen, I did notice that. Nice job. How is the smoking going, still up here with us?

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CBW, you already had one baby, can't CB deliver this one, hahahahhaha

Um... no.

But it's such a happy thread today, that I don't want to talk about why I fell.

I'll be back up again shortly. I just have to pick the pieces back up.

Synnen is that not why we are all here, for one addiction or another. To be able to share about it. It is a happy thread because we are altogether. Right.

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Yes, spill it synnen.

Hell no start he is more sqeemish than me and there is always the scary bit of this one being ultra early too :(

Syn don't you dare not share your woes now spill it girl

Hi everyone and hugs for all. Not able to access from work anymore :(

Synn, love you so much! More than words. :)

Naw. This one will be fine CBW. A perfect little angel... but not too little, I'm sure you will have a healthy long pregnancy.

Synnen - yes, we all want to help.

I know CBW, I was trying to keep my smarty pants on a little longer. As for you Synnen, you got to come clean.

To right syn were here for you don't forget that will you

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Cbw, Is Absolutely Right.

That's for sure, she is busy she said. We will have to wait it out.

Hey CBW, that little baby will be just fine and Millie will be an excellent big sis.

Millie will be funny I'm not sure how she is going to take to sharing her daddy hell she gets fussy when I hug him lol

That is not such a bad thing to be able to say. If I weren't around my oldest two might as well kill each other. JUST WAIT my dear, just wait

It is hard to say, every single baby is different. Every situation is different.

Hope she learns to take it well, as long as she feels included in, with the new blessing. I am sure everything will be just fine.

Oh no, I think Millie is going to have a blast being big sister. An absolute blast.

It will be a hoot to watch. Oh these are some special times.

Connor gets pretty upset when My hubby hugs me too... he's all "my mommy" lol... he is really going to have a rough time. We spoiled him rotten... the little tomato

My daughter was an angel with her little brothers, she still is, and our youngest gets into bed with her in the middle of the night. (when he isn't in with us that is) She is a love

Oh bless I truly do hope she doesn't kick up too much of a fuss guess its all about how much you involve them.

I have the boys for a week. Woo hoo.

Oh wow that's fab news jelly bellys alround woo hoo :D

I really like cereal. I will go buy eighteen boxes tonight. I will need them

Hehehehehe you will feel like you are feeding the five thousend :D

That is normal around this house. We tend to gather kids that aren't ours all the time!

Hehehehehehe how fab I bet that's great to see though.

I love it, just love it. My kids and their friends are great!