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  • May 2, 2011, 04:40 PM
    Skyrocket Away
    Sore spot on vagina ONLY during my period?
    I'm a 20 year old girl. I eat healthy, exercise regularly, have a great diet that rarely consists of soda or anything else. I am married and have only had sex with my husband, unprotected, and we were both virgins before having sex with each other. Now, before I go on, let me just say I have had a full STD screening, twice.

    Now, my problem is, when I get my period, or even spot a little, I get a very sore spot around my vaginal canal. It feels like a sharp, painful, burning spot only on the left side of my vagina. And it only hurts if I touch it or pee. The actual act of urinating doesn't hurt or burn or anything, it's only when I pee and it touches that one spot. And again, it's only when I have my period or spotting.

    Any ideas?
  • May 2, 2011, 04:43 PM
    JudyKayTee

    Why did your Doctor suggest STD screening (twice, in fact) if you were a virgin and you married a virgin?

    Just curious -

    Is the spot raw for some reason?
  • May 2, 2011, 04:51 PM
    JudyKayTee

    EDIT: I have several concerns. You have opened several threads concerning your reproductive health and your relationship with your husband. You have posted that you married in mid-December 2010; in June 2010 (6 months earlier) you (presumably a virgin, as you have posted here) were getting pregnancy tests. You were both virgins but you have a site for people to share "sexual experiences and photos."

    Your posts simply do not add up OR make sense when read and compared.

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/womens...l#post2719642; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marria...d-538986.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/womens...a-516738.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-...l#post2546271; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/womens...ge-483164.html
  • May 2, 2011, 04:54 PM
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    Comment on JudyKayTee's post
    I had 2 STD screenings because I was raped. But I do not consider that a sexual experience. And my previous posts have nothing to do with what I posted and am asking.
  • May 2, 2011, 05:03 PM
    JudyKayTee

    I don't want to argue with you. I was an adult victim of rape. You have mentioned your various physical and emotional problems and never said a word about rape. That isn't fair to those of us who are trying to help you.

    As an adult victim of rape I don't understand how/why you have an "adult" site for people to share sexual experiences and photos. We all come out of the rape experience in different ways. I do understand that part.

    You continue to post that you were a virgin when you got married, that you "only" had sex with your husband.

    On December 9, 2008 you posted about having sex with your boyfriend: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregna...ml#post1451638. That's certainly prior to your December 2010 wedding - and I think that takes away your virgin status, too. In fact, you mention this sexual experience several times, always referring to your boyfriend, never referring to a rape.

    Forced sex or not, you were not a virgin and that fact is important when you ask questions it could impact.

    Minimally this thread should be combined with your OTHER thread about the same thing.

    I am not going to spend any more time and energy on your old posts but you have posted about a multitude of health problems (some of them sexual) - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-...e-476229.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/womens...e-471607.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-...n-466389.html;

    In the event you are making things up to get attention, you really should see a professional. You must be very unhappy. I suppose you could be a troll but I very much doubt it.

    At any rate why don't you come back and ask an honest question and let someone try to assist you?
  • May 2, 2011, 05:57 PM
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    Comment on JudyKayTee's post
    ... I don't seem to understand what you're getting at. Just because I didn't mention the rape on here, doesn't mean it didn't happen or has anything to do with what I am asking. I have never once said I was a virgin when I got married, I said I was a virgin when I first had sex with my now husband, boyfriend at the time I am referring to in my older posts. I am not a troll, and certainly wouldn't be posting questions about my vagina, if I was a troll. It is a serious question, about a serious problem.

    Why in the hell would I make things up, SEXUAL THINGS, about myself, to get attention? I am highly offended by your accusations and would rather you no longer comment on my posts. I am having a serious problem and was looking for some answers.

    I don't appreciate you coming on here and calling me a troll and telling me I need to see a professional because I'm seeking "attention."
  • May 2, 2011, 06:03 PM
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    Comment on JudyKayTee's post
    And by the way, the blog we had together, of our nudes, was before I was raped and before anything happened, while we were both in our teens. Which isn't really any of your business.
  • May 3, 2011, 08:22 AM
    JudyKayTee

    Don't attempt to order who will and who will not answer your posts.

    You posted different info in your various threads. Someone was going to catch that. That someone was me. The sex site was in October 2010 and you married in mid-December 2010. Is that why you were questioning whether you should remain in the marriage?

    This same question was asked and answered once before. Why is it posted again?

    And I repeat - you have posted all sorts of info about your life. The one thing you left out was the rape which had to occur between October 2010 and mid-December 2010. You did have questions about your weight, hair and stretch marks and a myriad of other problems during this time frame.

    I think you have many issues in your life and repeat that I think you should speak to a professional. No insult, just a fact. You yourself have posted that you are seeing a Therapist. Why is it an insult if someone else recommends it? (And I never read that post until this AM.)

    When you ask questions about your health, about issues with your health, it helps no one if "we" are answering based on incorrect or "left out" information.

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