Did I do the right thing here?
Hi guys/gals,
I got reading someone else's thread which I responded to and it got me thinking about something I have recently done. Most of you already know about my history, I split up with my ex 4 months ago and she was the one to finish it after 3 years. I have had no contact whatsoever for 3 months although I found her on myspace a few weeks back and subsequently decided to remove my account. For those of you who don't know the history, here is a link to my first thread explaining the circumstances of the breakup: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...elp-39548.html
I have also recently changed my mobile number too and did this as a final means of adding to the no contact I have been so very good at maintaining within 3 long months. It got me thinking that if she ever did want to talk to me, if she really did, what message would this send out to her?
The fact that I changed my number. I am not saying she is going to call me because to my knowledge she has not. The thing is though, I still deeply love this woman and although hold little hope of getting back together with her, it scares me that I have made a decision to prevent her from being able to call me if she really wanted to. The again, I guess that this is negative thinking. If someone really wanted to speak to someone and they could not call them, surely they would search the ends of the earth to find them, in her case, by visiting my home or sending a letter or e-mailing me which are all options open to her.
I am not holding out for the hope that she will contact me, at least I don't think I am but I would not ignore her if she wanted to talk, then I would listen, if she wanted to explain things even if it meant nothing more than simply explaining things. Don't know, I think I did the right thing, I think I am just seeking reassurance here.