Friday I gave a guy a handjob.. I wiped my hand off with a tissue and touched something's.. About 7 minutes. Later without even thinking I reached down to see if I was wet with the same hand he ejaculated on.. Then I was like ****. It wasn't inside my vagina it was outside. And just one touch.. I just rstarted birth control and was about three weeks into I when I gave him the handjob.. I take my sugar pills this week. I'm just scared there coukd be a chance.. Do you thjnk I could be? I take ny birthcontrol every day but not exactly at the same time.. Because I didn't know you had to till now... Please help.

Chances are slim to none that you could become pregnant in this manner.

If it happened exactly how you said it did, no, you can't get pregnant that way.

That is exactly how it happened and I'm sure my hand was dry.. I think I may just be parinoid :/ are you positive...

Yes. I am a women's health nurse. I'm positive you can't get pregnant that way.

Thank you! And I was scared enough pretty sure I'm done being stupid

Agreed, and often it takes a good scare to make a person be safer. But no I don't see any chance

All right so Friday I gave a guy a handjob... I tissued off the ejaculation.. And then about 7 minutes later I reached down and touched myself without even relizing it.. It was with the same hand.. I'm on birth control for the first time and Friday was past three weeks. I took my first sugar pill today.. And no period yet. How long does it take for you to get your period while on the sugar pills.. And I also took a test this morning. It was negative but only 4 days after Friday.. But I also took a test that can tell before your period.. I don't know if that applies in my situation.. Do you think I am over-re-acting.. Please help me.. And in an honest way. I'm seriously scared. Pregnant? :|

You already asked this question yesterday. Reposting it and asking again will not get you any better answers than you already got.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregna...lp-633871.html

Also, I've looked through your other posts that you've made. It seems like you've got some sort of paranoia constantly going on over possibly being pregnant and it seems you're only a freshman in high school. You are too young to be having sex and if you would stop doing it, these worries of yours would go away.

Its my first month of birth control and tomorrow will be my third sugar pill... I started getting discharge today but no bleeding? Should I expect it soon.. I'm nervous because I gave a guy a hand job wiped it off but only with a tissue about 5 minutes later touched myself.. Can't get pregnant and just extremely nervous.. I take my pill every day around the same time on week days but not werkends.. :| scared out of my mind.. Don't know that much about birth control.. My doctor didn't explain much. :/

Can't get pregnant as in too young

Too young to get pregnant? If you are getting your periods you are not too young to get pregnant. However, from the experience you described above, there is no way you can get pregnant.

You have already asked this question twice and have already been told you cannot get pregnant that way.

And might I add... you have been told that you are too young to be having sex and if you would stop, so would your paranoia about being pregnant.

And birth control does not work if not taken properly. If you're not taking it on the weekends you might as well not take it at all.

So Friday night I got caught up in a moment.. And ended up giving a hand job.. I was on my period and had a tampon in but he touched himself and started touching me (he only pre ejaculated a tiny bit) around and slightly in that area. I still bled Saturday and it today's my 5th day on my period and should be ending soon... I've been on birth control for exactly a month and haven't missed a pill.. I know it was dumb and I'm continuing to learn for my mistakes. I've cried a lot and I don't think I can be.. But I need a second opinion.. A women with experience. Please.. I'm driving myself nuts..

Studies have shown that there are tons of sperm in male pre-ejaculate that CAN impregnate women. If he got some of his pre-ejaculate inside you deep enough, then yes, you could possibly get pregnant. It also depends on your cycle. Women who have shorter period cycles than other women can get pregnant near the end of their cycles easier (due to their cycles being shorter and possibly more irregular)

But in your best interest, if you are really that worried, I would go get Plan B if you want. However depending on when this happened the Plan B is most effective the day AFTER usually, and the longer you wait to take it, the less effective the pill is.

I'd still make an appointment with my family doctor or go to a clinic, but seriously, you should be fine. Sperm isn't really magical and can't leap from your hand during the hand job and him simply touching you. (Unless he intentionally ejaculated and then forced it inside of you) You really shouldn't be too worried.

Well sadly I can't afford plan be and it wasn't like an explotion.. it was like a few drips... and do you think my birth control is in effect? I didn't miss a day and my period was still very strong yesterday...

Birth control is designed to work and work pretty damn accurately. I'm 99% sure you're fine, although I don't know you in person. A few drops are nothing really, although there have been cases when a few drops is all it takes.

I'd just keep an eye on my cycles, as well as changes in your body (i.e. breast tenderness, bloating, etc) then see a doctor. I honestly think you're fine though, but I can understand your worry

Best of luck to you, and next time play safe please

In your situation pregnancy is slim to none. Just take this as a lesson. If you are not ready to be a single mother abstain from all forms of sex.

Thank you so much and even if it was only my first month do you think its effective by then.. and how early should I test? Do I have to wait till my next period?

Yes, you have to wait to see if your next period comes.

Okay and I saw that you work in the ER? Is it really unlikely that I am and how do I forget and stay worry free so stress doesn't affect me

I work in Labor and Delivery mostly, I do part time work in the ER. From your experience it is very unlikely that you got pregnant.

If your pregnant accept it the baby will give you bundle of joy.. I also get pregnant first before I was married.. but the father of my child accept it and he propose... its really frustrating sometimes

If your pregnant accept it the baby will give you bundle of joy.. I also get pregnant first before I was married.. but the father of my child accept it and he propose... its really frustrating sometimes

How would I tell pregnancy symptoms from birth control side affects

I'm on injectibles so I can't tell but sometimes I have pain like I'm having an ulcer and I don't have periods but have blood stains... when I'm not yet pregnant I never used control pills

I am on birth control I'm a catholic.. I'm really young and can't have aa child and I have faith that god won't do thst to me

Well if you're Catholic, you also have to think to yourself and bring yourself to account each day. You have to look and think: Am I prepared to have a child now? Am I financially stable and ready to bring a new life into a home such as my own?
Not to be rude, don't take this offensively, but judging from you saying you can't afford Plan B I'd say you are NOT ready to become a mother
Please take more caution next time you are having a sexual encounter. For yourself, as well as a potential future life.

You can't blame God for that when it happens because we're the ones who enjoy it and done it.. but the God has a plan for you.. how old are you?

I am a catholic as well. I got pregnant using both birth control pills AND condoms. Luckily I was married at the time. This happened to me not once, but twice. My boys are now 26 and 24 and they have since given me grandchildren.

It has nothing to do with God. Trust me. I didn't think God would give me cancer, but I had cancer.

If you aren't ready to be a mother, stop having sex, or any form of sex.

Yes she's right next time when you have that in your mind you should also be aware that it could really happen.. be responsible for yourself.. we only tell this because we really care for your future or for your baby

J_9 is right. I'm not trying to tell you what to do and what NOT to do, but you have to realize you COULD run into serious trouble if you aren't careful.

j_9 do you really have that sick? I'm sorry

And I made I mistake.. I wanted advice, and needed help. I know I'm not ready! Im trying to learn.. I made a mistake.. and I wanted opinions and knowledge if anyone thought I could be... I was scared and I needed help.. not told all this.. now I'm back to the beginning... scared and unsure

Is it matter of choices.. not religion.. you cannot blame anyone for what's happening in to you

We're not trying to scare you, we're telling you about reality. Even if you DIDN'T get pregnant, you could get an STI.

Everyone makes mistakes kid but we assure you if you face all your fears and get ready to be responsible everything will be OK.. I'm also a young mom.. in my age I should be finishing my college right now.. but I'm working now for the future of my child.. but I'm happy6 with my husband..

Yup you could get a disease...