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  • Aug 16, 2013, 10:19 PM
    Merry16
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    I imagined them anxiously waiting outside your door to see the evidence almost immediately. Be sure you know exactly how this will happen and have a perfect plan so you don't get caught.

    Yea it should be easy since no one will be outside my door. I will be in a hotel. I just wasn't sure if hymen blood was different from any other body blood. But I am glad I cleared this up.
  • Aug 16, 2013, 10:29 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Merry16 View Post
    Yea it should be easy since no one will be outside my door. I will be in a hotel. I just wasn't sure if hymen blood was different from any other body blood. But I am glad I cleared this up.

    Then you're in the clear.

    Congrats on finding what sounds like a really great guy, especially in your culture. Try not to worry so much about the wedding night, and enjoy the preparations, and the actual wedding day, it goes by so fast.
  • Aug 17, 2013, 04:29 AM
    Merry16
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    Then you're in the clear.

    Congrats on finding what sounds like a really great guy, especially in your culture. Try not to worry so much about the wedding night, and enjoy the preparations, and the actual wedding day, it goes by so fast.

    Haha yes can't wait esp Greece for the honeymoon :)
  • Aug 17, 2013, 06:34 AM
    ScottGem
    I would not use someone else's blood. Who knows what tests they will perform on the stain on the sheets. Maybe your sister is a different blood type. It should not be difficult for you to collect an ounce or so of blood (I would do it from the inner thigh) and just spread it on the sheet before morning.
  • Aug 17, 2013, 01:17 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post
    I would not use someone else's blood. Who knows what tests they will perform on the stain on the sheets. Maybe your sister is a different blood type. It should not be difficult for you to collect an ounce or so of blood (I would do it from the inner thigh) and just spread it on the sheet before morning.

    Based on what the OP posted, they simply pour a vodka like substance on the blood. She did say they won't send it to a lab to test it, it's not that involved.

    If that's the case, all she needs is human blood, doesn't matter if it's hers or not. But, better safe than sorry, so I would use her own blood too, just in case these relatives up the ante.

    Why do I feel like I'm telling a vampire how to acquire human blood? ;)
  • Aug 17, 2013, 01:55 PM
    ScottGem
    That's why this is so ludicrous. It's so easy to fake. Examining the sheets is no guarantee. Even if they go so far as to analyze the stain all it proves is she bled on the sheets.
  • Aug 17, 2013, 02:00 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post
    That's why this is so ludicrous. It's so easy to fake. Examining the sheets is no guarantee. Even if they go so far as to analyze the stain all it proves is she bled on the sheets.

    I agree, but Scott, we're dealing with people that believe that every virgin bleeds the first time she has sex. So really, if they're not educated enough to know that's not true, it really shouldn't be that hard to fool them.

    Just saying. :)
  • Aug 17, 2013, 02:51 PM
    N0help4u
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post

    Are you saying that your family (or your husband's) will actually check the sheets?

    Yes it is a culture/religion thing. I didn't know it was still done in this day and age.
    I highly doubt they actually analyze

    http://search.yahoo.com/search;_ylt=...8&fr=yfp-t-103
  • Aug 17, 2013, 05:42 PM
    Merry16
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post
    That's why this is so ludicrous. It's so easy to fake. Examining the sheets is no guarantee. Even if they go so far as to analyze the stain all it proves is she bled on the sheets.

    I never heard anyone send sheets to the lab. I'll just prick myself just in case. Half of these people do not know what a gyno is. My fiancé is from Macedonia & I am from New York. These people are uneducated and have not seen the real world. I should be fine :)
  • Aug 18, 2013, 09:38 AM
    joypulv
    This was a common practice in many cultures and religions throughout history, so I'm not surprised that it still exists. Throughout Europe, the groom hung the sheet out on a clothesline or draped over the windowsill while everyone waited outside. I'm not sure about religious differences or even when it stopped.
  • Aug 18, 2013, 10:04 AM
    N0help4u
    Apparently it still exists. In my 20's I remember hearing about it happening up through the 70's.
  • Aug 18, 2013, 11:02 AM
    joypulv
    There were even bedposts that had a hidden removable half-round cap on top, which women filled with a little animal blood. They could fill it the day before in case they were searched.

    No one ever said women haven't been wiley all these centuries. I'll bet all the women involved in checking the sheets in this family know all the ways and act like they don't. It's just tradition.
  • Aug 19, 2013, 04:55 PM
    Merry16
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by joypulv View Post
    There were even bedposts that had a hidden removable half-round cap on top, which women filled with a little animal blood. They could fill it the day before in case they were searched.

    No one ever said women haven't been wiley all these centuries. I'll bet all the women involved in checking the sheets in this family know all the ways and act like they don't. It's just tradition.

    Yes, I have heard stories about women in earlier times using chicken blood. That sounds disgusting though :(

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