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  • Aug 4, 2013, 06:40 AM
    savyone
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    Remember what I said.... Stranger things have happened.

    One way I like to describe it in layman's terms is that unless there is a camera in your fallopian tube taking video's, we never know exactly when we ovulate and when the sperm meets the egg.

    I delivered my daughter at 35 weeks and the pediatrician told me she was 40 weeks after a test called the New Ballard test was performed.

    As for filing for child support, that is done after you leave the hospital through the court system. Whatever you do, do not list a father on the birth certificate after the delivery. That would be falsifying information since you don't know who the father is.

    I can put who the father is according to my MD. Just wanted a nurses level of comfort. Obviously a whole gestational sac can't form in 6 days. And the level of certainty is high enough and a DNA to confirm. Just wanted any other factual supporting evidence.
  • Aug 4, 2013, 06:42 AM
    J_9
    May I ask why you gave me a disagree (reddie) when I provided you with factual information?

    Apparently you have a higher level of medical degree than I do?

    I would also like to ask you if you already knew the answer to your question, why did you come here?
  • Aug 4, 2013, 06:47 AM
    savyone
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    May I ask why you gave me a disagree (reddie) when I provided you with factual information?

    Apparently you have a higher level of medical degree than I do?

    I replaced it with a valid website as this information given on gestational sac was inaccurate. I choose not to reveal my level of expertise. I came here for help from woman who know dating and cycles well. FYI babies deliver at many different weeks this has nothing to do with menstrual cycles.

    Other woman read these post and don't want them to misunderstand the truth. I am a truth seeker and an expert in few areas If I worked in OB, that would be my forte.
  • Aug 4, 2013, 06:51 AM
    J_9
    Yes, I know dating and cycles well. I also know that babies deliver at different gestational ages (not weeks). Dating is a best guess, a New Ballard or Dubowitz Screening Test is more accurate than dating per menstruation or intercourse. That is done after the baby is born.

    The internet is a dangerous place for medically uneducated people like yourself.
  • Aug 4, 2013, 06:51 AM
    savyone
    Ok as you do work in OB show me one valid site that provides the possibility of a gestational sac at 6 days post sex?
  • Aug 4, 2013, 06:54 AM
    J_9
    I'm not going to take the time to do that right now as you will argue with me like you argue with a brick wall. I've worked 7pm to 7am delivering babies, and I don't have the patience for argumentative people like you.

    Like I have repeatedly said...

    Stranger things have happened.

    I tried to be nice to you, I tried to help you. It appears you don't want and/or need my help.

    Good day to you.
  • Aug 4, 2013, 06:54 AM
    savyone
    I am well educated in research and babies are born in weeks measurements as well and they do vary greatly as not all babies develop at the same rate... again this has nothing to do with time of conception and the fact I would like you to reveal the 50 day cycle probability. Thanks for trying to help. Your just not as educated as id imagined.

    Your giving up on a tough question that is fine. I appreciate you trying to be nice. Educated material is more appreciated. You enjoy your day too. Didn't mean offense
  • Aug 4, 2013, 06:57 AM
    J_9
    Nah, you're right. I wasted all that time and money in nursing school for nothing.

    No wonder you don't know who the father of your baby is.
  • Aug 4, 2013, 07:01 AM
    savyone
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    Nah, you're right. I wasted all that time and money in nursing school for nothing.

    No wonder you don't know who the father of your baby is.

    Sorry you wasted your money when you know nothing about the gestational sac nor your own area of expertise. You chart the same thing over and over and have no true interest in the woman you serve. I was only interested in information, Unfortunately the MD knows the father is #1 despite my wishes.
  • Aug 4, 2013, 07:04 AM
    savyone
    Please only respond with factual evidence or don't claim you're an expert when really all you do is repeatedly follow the commands of an MD on a daily basis and have done no research aside of this area for probably many years. Nursing school is a big waste of money for those who truelly have no interest in the truth of their expertise.
  • Aug 4, 2013, 07:05 AM
    J_9
    Yes, ma'am.

    **cough cough, groan groan**

    Quote:

    the MD knows the father is #1 despite my wishes.
    Again, you came here with a question you already knew the answer to. Why ask at all?

    Are you always so argumentative? No wonder you can't keep your men straight. No one wants to be with you more than 24 hours with an attitude like that.
  • Aug 4, 2013, 07:11 AM
    savyone
    Ok that is factual, you're getting somewhere now. Who needs men. Babies have been the love of my life.

    Tuelly just have a love of learning new things and the only thing I've learned from you and a pet expert is that you can offend people when you know their response is wrong. You'd feel much better if you did know my level of education. Honestly, most nurses know no more than you. :)
  • Aug 4, 2013, 07:15 AM
    J_9
    Okay, thank you. Good bye.

    I'd like to see you handle a post partum hemorrhage. Or even DIC, if you knew what it was without using Google.
  • Aug 4, 2013, 07:15 AM
    savyone
    Only those who take true pride in what they do stand out and really make a difference in the life of others. We all make mistakes and are sinners. Judge not and be not judged.

    Hang fluids and blood as ordered
  • Aug 4, 2013, 07:17 AM
    J_9
    Sorry, I don't subscribe to your so-called religion.

    I've made a difference in a good way and have been rewarded for it. You, on the other hand don't even know who the father of your child is. Sinner?
  • Aug 4, 2013, 07:17 AM
    savyone
    Easy get the crash cart as needed and deliver medication... again... as ordered
  • Aug 4, 2013, 07:17 AM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Hang fluids and blood as ordered
    Wrong!
  • Aug 4, 2013, 07:20 AM
    savyone
    Of course I don't know the father of the child but what's more important the universe and eternity. I assume your atheist. To each his own but at least I have more factual information. A nurse is only special because she chooses to go above and beyond the level of taking orders and develops knowledge as well as those giving her the orders

    You'd want to prevent shock so you would anticipate the need for fluids and possible blood unless there is some magic I don't know about the simplicity of nursing
  • Aug 4, 2013, 07:23 AM
    J_9
    Nope, not atheist. Guess again.

    Yup, I go above and beyond the level of taking orders as my MDs are at home asleep while I work and depend on me to do their jobs.

    Oh, I've also been nominated 6 times for a Daisy Award. Go ahead, look that up.

    BTW, I work for a Baptist facility.
  • Aug 4, 2013, 07:24 AM
    savyone
    Fluids keep the blood pressure from dropping and the blood would be in the case of significant loss as determined by MD

    I worked there as well probably ran into you, most yas all the same.. Miami Florida I take it

    Ok well I have no clue on religion and lost many of those closest to me. I pray that God takes me to a better place. I am nondenominational and open to many ideas and have my bible from 1985 to comfort me. Assumed your atheist as you are quick to judge.

    If your so smart find me anything that states a gestational sac can be detected six days after sex... that you cant. Yes, I already knew the answer but wanted to find out how smart some of the respondents are. Also, I have resuscitated and cpr and action open organ transplant trauma and in Jackson system much more education than Baptist :)

    I don't claim my level of expertise as I am here for enjoyment purposes only.

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