Hiya! Well I lost my virginity around 3 monthes ago, and yes, it was increbibly painful! But he was so supportive and I'm so happy to have chared that with him, been together 9 monthes before we did it. It was the best thing to share! Since then we have had sex a lot, and I know it's amazing for him, but a lot of the time I do pretend to have a big O... lol. But it's so annoying because I want to enjoy it as much as he does, so I'm also questioning when it will start to feel great like it does with him :/