Yeah my husband and I are set to do it when I feel the time is right. It seems that it will happen after Christmas. I know what I have to say and tell the future and that I plan to move in with my husband. Also how I'm happ with my life and want her to be happy for me.

You really should 'set to do it' before the New Year so you can start it off right. Trust me when it comes to things like this you never find a time that feels right. If you don't do it for New Years will the time feel right by Jan 20? Will it feel right for your birthday? His birthday?
There is NO time that will ever 'feel' right you just have to DO it!

I know and we will after Christmas before New Years. So I agree that it should have a fresh start. I also will tell her that I plan on moving out living with my husband and getting everything with him, cell phone, health insurance, and money. I will start woking if I have to. I will make this work and just want my mother to be happy for me.