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cmiller18 · Sep 8, 2012, 09:01 PM

I am 18 and I have a boyfriend that I truly love. I would do anything for him. But I don't think he feels the same way.because to start it off I have to watch what I say or how I say something because he will get extremely pissed at me. And just flip out. And he always tells me that we are going to do something, he's going to come see me , or hel promise me something and he hardly goes through with anything he says. And he thinks its okay to promise me stuff as long as he says sorry that he can't do it. And he tells me to tell him if I don't want him to do something and when I do he tells me I can't tell him what to do. And he says that I mean everything to him and that I'm the best thing in his life I seriously don't knoe what to do beacause I love him so much and don't want to lose him

teacherjenn4 · Sep 8, 2012, 09:06 PM

What do you have to lose? He treats you with disrespect. Why do you continue to allow this? Don't you think you deserve better?

cmiller18 · Sep 8, 2012, 09:18 PM

I really don't know. Beside all the disrespect witch I can't lie is a lot. We have good moments were we can just sit there and have a good time and nothing seems to matter then. And we have a lot of good memories but sometimes I do think I desirve better and I don't know because when I think about not having him around it hurts

Homegirl 50 · Sep 8, 2012, 09:34 PM

Originally Posted by cmiller18

i really dont know. beside all the disrespect witch i can't lie is alot. we have good moments were we can just sit there and have a good time and nothing seems to matter then. and we have alot of good memories but sometimes i do think i desirve better and i dont know because when i think about not having him around it hurts

Well you need to get over that! Being with someone who does not treat you right gets old. Things will never change because you are so silly in love you take his crap. Grow up and walk away from this bad relationship.

teacherjenn4 · Sep 8, 2012, 09:37 PM

Originally Posted by cmiller18

i really dont know. beside all the disrespect witch i can't lie is alot. we have good moments were we can just sit there and have a good time and nothing seems to matter then. and we have alot of good memories but sometimes i do think i desirve better and i dont know because when i think about not having him around it hurts

You deserve better. Time to move on. You will know how badly he treated you when you meet someone who treats you with the respect you deserve. You may be sad for a short time, but it will pass.

cmiller18 · Sep 11, 2012, 12:12 AM

Thank you guys for your advise. :) I am really thankfull because of you I did what was best for me.

teacherjenn4 · Sep 11, 2012, 05:35 AM

Originally Posted by cmiller18

thank you guys for your advise. :) i am really thankfull because of you i did what was best for me.

That's really good to hear. Take time for yourself now and heal.

dwaa · Sep 13, 2012, 02:52 AM

Say him what u feel because this time will never never come again

cmiller18 · Sep 13, 2012, 10:41 PM

I wnted to say that there has been a big weight left sense its been over and I thought I wld be so depressed bt I'm nt I have realized that I wasted almost a year with sumone that didn't even care and he don't even care that were over so why shld I n the hole time I waz blind.. there waz this guy friend of mine that waz there for me the hole time witch didn't think anything from it bt sense I been single he tld me what he rele feels and I cnt lie I feel the same way. And I don't know why I wasted my time with the other guy when there was a prefect guy rite in front of my eyes the hole time like he don't live around here bt he is staying here in town and looking for a job because he don't wna leave me. Bt we both agreed that we are going to stay friends for awhile because I don't wnt to rush getting into a relationship.

Fr_Chuck · Sep 13, 2012, 10:58 PM

Sounds like a smart thing to do

Homegirl 50 · Sep 14, 2012, 12:14 PM

Originally Posted by cmiller18

i wnted to say tht there has been a big weight lefted sence its been over n i thought i wld b so depressed bt im nt i hav relized tht i wasted almost a year with sumone tht didnt even care n he dnt even care tht were over so y shld i n the hole time i waz blind.. there waz this guy friend of mine tht waz there for me the hole time witch didnt think anythin from it bt sence i been single he tld me what he rele feels n i cnt lie i feel the same way. n i dnt kno y i wasted my time with the other guy wen there was a prefect guy rite infront of my eyes the hole time like he dnt live around here bt he is stayin here in town n lookin for a job jus bc he dnt wna leave me. bt we both agred tht we r goin to stay friends for awhile bc i dnt wnt to rush getting into a relationship.

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