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abcdefghijk123 · Oct 24, 2011, 03:21 PM

Hi guys I really need a bra. My nipples poke out of all my shirts and they are very sensitive. I am starting to develop breasts and need a bra. I am just to afraid to ask my mom. She asked me before but I said no. She hasn't asked since and I really need one. How should I ask her and what should I say? Oh... I am so scared! What if she makes fun of me PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP!

Fr_Chuck · Oct 24, 2011, 03:25 PM

Just ask her, all she can do is say no or yes, show her how your breasts are showing

Wondergirl · Oct 24, 2011, 03:26 PM

Tell her what you posted here. SHOW her how your nipples poke out. Certainly that would convince her.

ScottGem · Oct 24, 2011, 03:28 PM

Why should you be scared of your mom? Why would you think your mom will make fun of you? Did she make fun when she originally asked?

Just go up to her and show her how your nipples show through your tops and tell her you think you need a bra now and when can we go shopping.

LisaB4657 · Oct 24, 2011, 03:41 PM

If your mom asked you before then she probably thought that you needed one. Since you said no maybe she's leaving you alone about it because she may not want to make you feel uncomfortable talking about it.

She's not going to make fun of you. She may smile but that won't be making fun--it'll be more like she'll be happy that you're acknowledging what she already knew.

Never hesitate to talk to your mom, OK?

abcdefghijk123 · Oct 25, 2011, 02:38 PM

Thanks guys. I am not scared anymore. Something came over that. I am now embarrassed. Please tell me word to word how to ask her! Thanks!

LisaB4657 · Oct 25, 2011, 02:46 PM

"Mom, can you please buy a bra for me?" will probably work well.

abcdefghijk123 · Oct 25, 2011, 03:11 PM

Well the thing is I don't know what to say and lisab4657 told me but I don't really feel that open too my mom! Please help!!

Wondergirl · Oct 25, 2011, 03:13 PM

Write her a note.

Wondergirl · Oct 26, 2011, 03:47 PM

Note: Mom, please buy a bra for me.

Fr_Chuck · Oct 26, 2011, 07:14 PM

ABC please stop reporting the post to try and add more info, a report is like a "bad answer" You need to come back and actually answer your own post to add more info.
Most posters will never see what you write in a report.

Wondergirl, the poster wants to know what she should put in the note.

I suggest maybe making a copy of this thread and giving to her.

Wondergirl · Oct 26, 2011, 07:18 PM

Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

Wondergirl, the poster wants to know what she should put in the note.

I told her what she could write. Or she could write, "Let's go out to lunch soon and while we're out, we can buy me a bra."

abcdefghijk123 · Oct 27, 2011, 01:48 PM

Well, thanks a lot. I appriciate your answers but I need to know more about knowing what my letter should say. Thanks guys! Oh and some more infortmation is I keep making hints at her but I don't think she gets them. Thanks again!

LisaB4657 · Oct 27, 2011, 01:51 PM

You're making it more difficult than it needs to be. If you don't feel comfortable asking her verbally then just take a small piece of paper, write "Mom, I think I'm ready for a bra now. Could we please go shopping for one?" and either hand it to her or put it somewhere where you know she'll see it.

ScottGem · Oct 27, 2011, 05:55 PM

Maybe if you explain to us why you have such a hard time talking to your mother we can help more. But otherwise you just keep it simple. You've been given suggestions on what to say.

abcdefghijk123 · Nov 18, 2011, 05:57 PM

I wrote can I have a bra down on a piece of paper, stuck it in an envelope, and gave it to her to open while I was at school. Three days later I walked into my room with six bras on my bed.

LisaB4657 · Nov 18, 2011, 06:07 PM

Congratulations :)

abcdefghijk123 · Nov 18, 2011, 06:11 PM

Thank you!!

ScottGem · Nov 18, 2011, 06:36 PM

Great! See all that worry for nothing.

JudyKayTee · Nov 23, 2011, 04:58 PM

Originally Posted by abcdefghijk123

I wrote can I have a bra down on a piece of paper, stuck it in an envelope, and gave it to her to open while I was at school. Three days later I walked into my room with six bras on my bed.

As a woman I have to ask - how did she know your size?