Hi, urh I need help.. Im dating this guy and I don't know if I should break up with him? I do like him so much but my parents don't let me date until I'm 15... and I tell everythig to my cuzins and apparently there telling there moms and there moms tell my mom. Now my dad is going to check on everything I did on the computer.. and my boyfriend and I dated once and we broke up because I wasent aloud to date and like I like him so much I told him I can date, and that was when we began to date? What should I do break up with him or stay with him PLEASE I NEED HELP!!

If your parents won't allow you to date, then you tell your boyfriend that you have to break up with him because you're not allowed to date.

It's that simple.

If he can't respect that, then he really doesn't care about you.

How old are you? I'm guessing that you're very young, probably 11 or younger. I'm only basing that on your post, and the spelling errors.

Yea I'm 14

OK is I'm a 15 year old girl. Who still can't date. Now here's what I do, you STILL date BUT you don't tell anyone but your friends at schoolit really does work but you have to make sure not to do anything to bad. Now if your under 12 I don't think you should be dating in the first place. Just Be Careful and good luck :)

You leave this boy alone. You have plenty of time to date and it will be better when you have the permission of your parents.
You start lying to them, they will no longer trust you.
Sneaking around is not cool and it is a very immature thing to do.

If you like him so much , then stay with him, but you need to tell him what your parents think so that he doesn't do or say anything they wouldn't want him to , whilst there around or on the computer, make sure you don't let your parents find out, and things should go fine

Im sure your parents have done so much for you until now. And I'm sure nobody loves you more than how much they do. And its not like they are going to prevent you from dating forever. At this time, it is best to listen to them, because they know when is the right age to not to interfere into your dating and relationships. Again, you can save all the dating complications for later. Please talk to your dad about what's running in your mind.

Ok maybe I was wrong in what I said just listen to your parents they know what's right for you. Im sorry for the wrong advice I guess it seemed right at the moment sorry :/... you can date and have fun when your older right now is the time you should be cracking down on those books :) hope this is better advice then ^

Like it or not, we are giving our opinions. If you wanted to hear something which you like to hear, you should not have put such a question in open forum. Good luck

You may not like what you hear, but what I said was not wrong. Lying to your parents so you can do something they don't want you to do is not right and it is a very reckless and immature thing to do

Time to read the rules.

Unhelpful ratings are for factually incorrect information only, not for opinion.

The only ones deserving of an unhelpful rating were those posters that told you to lie to your parents, go behind their backs, and date anyway. That advice is not correct.

Read the rules you agreed to when you joined this site. I know you don't like rules, that's obvious, seeing as you're trying to find a way to circumvent your parents rules, but on this site, you follow the rules, or you're gone.

Any further breaking of the rules will be reported and dealt with by the mods. Now you know the rules, so follow them.

Yea... true

I didn't read the rules?

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I didn't read the rules?

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It would seem that you didn't, or you read them and either didn't understand them, or chose to ignore them.

You've given unhelpful ratings to quite a few posts on this thread that aren't deserving of that rating.

If you need help understanding the rules, just ask. We're more then happy to help. That's why we're here after all.

Ha I ignored it.. and maybe I hvive unhelpful things but those are my opinions... You do help people by giving out your opinions and that's what I've done. :p

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ha I ignored it.. and maybe I hvive unhelpful things but those are my opinions... You do help people by giving out your opinions and that's what I've done. :p

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Yes, that is your opinion, but giving a negative unhelpful rating for someone else's opinion is against the rules of this site. You may think you're above the rules at home, but here we enforce the rules. You don't get to choose whether to follow them.

If you don't like someone's opinion, then quote their post, and write your own post expressing why you don't agree, but do not give an unhelpful rating for opinion. Now that you know the rules, you're expected to follow them. Any more deviations from the rules will be reported to the mods of this site.

This is not open to debate.

OK what negative opinion have I give?

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OK what negative opinion have I give?

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Homegirl's post #5:

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mame_chula123 does not find this helpful : I don't like it and I'm 14 :p

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BK201's post #7:

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mame_chula123 does not find this helpful : I don't like it

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You rated both of these posts with an unhelpful rating, even though both posts were factually correct, and opinion.

Now do you understand?

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Originally Posted by Mrs.Monster

ok is im a 15 year old girl. who stil can't date. Now heres what i do, you STILL date BUT you dont tell anyone but your friends at schoolit really does work but you have to make sure not to do anything to bad. Now if your under 12 i dont think you should be dating in the first place. Just Be Careful and good luck :)

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Why is someone who is not allowed to date giving advice all over the teen/dating/relationship boards? Makes no sense to me - it's all guesswork.

And defying parents? Never a good idea.

Yes I know there correct but I just wanted another answer BUT YOUR I Didn't LIKE :p

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yes I know there correct but I just wanted another answer BUT YOUR I Didn't LIKE :p

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Oi!:(

Okay, I'm going to try to explain this one last time.

There are rules on this site. Rules you agreed to when you joined the site. If you didn't read them, that's your fault, but you still agreed to follow them while you're using this site.

One of those rules is that you're not allowed to negatively rate (rate a post unhelpful), unless it's factually incorrect. Do you know what that means? It means that the post has to be wrong. Opinion can't be rated as wrong because it's opinion.

I'll give you an example of a factually incorrect post:

The sky is orange and cows say meow.

This is not factually correct, and if someone were to post something like this, that post would be worthy of, and totally within the rules of, receiving an unhelpful rating.

All the unhelpful ratings I quoted that you gave out are against the rules of this site. If you keep on disobeying the rules of this site, especially since you've now been warned, repeatedly, you will be banned from the site. Do you understand? Is it finally clear?

If you want further help understanding the rules, start a thread in forum help. I'm done posting about the rules on this thread, and will ask the mods to close it since we're obviously not getting anywhere.

One last bit of advice. Forget dating. Concentrate on school so that you can learn to write complete sentences that actually make sense, and stop putting :p on everything. It's not cute, it just shows your intelligence, or lack thereof. :rolleyes:

I am closing this thread, it is obvious that the child is not old and mature enough to understand good advice,