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  • Apr 13, 2011, 08:03 AM
    omhania
    What should I do ?
    I met this guy in school after I moved to a new class and we became besties in less than 2 months than after another month he told me that he loved me but I didn't give a response and we kept on like this for about 5 months and he told me he want to stay with me until marriage I am really in love with him before we became even friends but I never told him because I was very afraid of getting in a relationship but now he is seeing another girl and treating me very bad and avoiding me totally and is also calling me names with his friends and I don't know what to do ireally miss him :'(
  • Apr 13, 2011, 08:27 AM
    amicon

    So he's a jerk-you ignore him and his infantile ways.

    Head held high,have nothing more to do with him.
  • Apr 13, 2011, 12:19 PM
    omhania
    Thanks for the answer I really do this infrint of him but I see him daily in school and I just can't manage forgetting him this way
  • Apr 13, 2011, 12:26 PM
    amicon

    You will,with time,just make sure you're busy and be around people who you're comfortable with.
  • Apr 13, 2011, 03:27 PM
    chuff

    You should have taken the opportunity when it presented. He didn't owe you the opportunity to wait around. Now you reorganize yourself and move forward.
  • Apr 13, 2011, 08:25 PM
    talaniman

    Give yourself a chance to make new friends since this is a new school. You may like the guy but for sure when his efforts didn't work like he wanted them to, he showed his TRUE character. If he loved you like he said, wouldn't he have tried to win your heart?

    I think you will look back on this and be glad you didn't fall for his rap so easily. I mean sounds great but had no action behind them. Matter of fact, he started to act like a young spoiled kid.
  • Apr 15, 2011, 05:16 PM
    omhania
    *** more answer
  • Apr 16, 2011, 05:16 AM
    talaniman

    More info

    Update

    Feedback

    Input

    All the above
  • Apr 25, 2011, 11:07 AM
    omhania
    What do u want to know more?
  • Apr 25, 2011, 12:10 PM
    talaniman

    How you have been doing? How have you been coping??
  • Apr 25, 2011, 01:26 PM
    omhania
    Nth we don't talk byt sometimes we look at each other but say nth at all I'm doing mmy birthday the next Thursday but I don't know if I should invite him?
  • Apr 25, 2011, 02:35 PM
    chuff
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by omhania View Post
    nth we dnt talk byt sometimes we look at each other but say nth at all im doing mmy birthday the next thursday but i dnt knw if i should invite him?

    Eye kant reed tis gibberash. Kan u leern 2 rite karectly?
  • Apr 25, 2011, 03:00 PM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by omhania View Post
    nth we dnt talk byt sometimes we look at each other but say nth at all im doing mmy birthday the next thursday but i dnt knw if i should invite him?

    Translation service by the T Guy!

    Nothing. We don't talk, but we look at each other but say nothingat all. I'm doing my birthday the next Thursday but, I don't know if I should invite him?

    No, he is the past and deserves to stay there, and send me a check for translation fees. Never mind, consider it my gift for your birthday :)
  • Apr 27, 2011, 07:20 AM
    omhania
    Thanks
    I talked to him yesterday to invite him but he kept on laughing on the place I'm doing my birthday in because it's not expensive but then we talked and at the end of the conversation I told him what do you want he told me I want you then the battery of the mobile went empty but then I called him again but he didn't answer and today at school he didn't talk to me at all and avoided me totally
    What should I do now?
    P.S:SORRY ABOUT THE LANGUAGE BUT I'M FROM EGYPT AND ENGLISH IS NOT MY LANGUAGE SO I DON'T WRITE IT PERFECTLY :)
  • Apr 27, 2011, 07:43 AM
    talaniman

    You have a great time on your birthday, and plan a great life without this fellow. That's what you do.

    Why are you trying to include him in your life, when he clearly doesn't want to be a part of it??
  • Apr 27, 2011, 07:55 AM
    amicon

    I think you have a great time without him,he's playing games-avoid him.

    Enjoy your birthday!!
  • Apr 27, 2011, 11:52 AM
    omhania
    Thanks so much for u I think I'm really having good time without him
  • Apr 27, 2011, 01:03 PM
    amicon

    Good luck!
  • Apr 28, 2011, 05:11 AM
    omhania
    Thanks he is coming today and I'm really confused about it but I'm going to enjoy my time :D
  • Apr 28, 2011, 07:03 AM
    amicon

    Well,you go,girl!!
  • Apr 29, 2011, 11:57 AM
    omhania
    Yesterday at my birthday I wore an outfit that I knew he wouldn't like it and he really complained about it but he sometimes avoid me and other times he talks to me and I'm really confused and my birthday gift from him was perfume but is for men
    P.S:he left the girl he became in relationship with after he left me
    *** answeeeer
    SO CONFUSED :S
  • Apr 29, 2011, 01:25 PM
    talaniman

    Do you really need a guy so bad you have to choose a ditsy bird who gives a girl MENS perfume for a birthday gift??
  • Apr 29, 2011, 03:45 PM
    omhania
    I asked him he told me that he didn'y mean so an kept on apologizing and telling me that he will bting for me another one
  • Apr 30, 2011, 04:02 PM
    omhania
    Yesterday I was talking to him and there is another guy in the class also loves me and he knows so we were talking about that other guy and I told him he was jealous because I talked to him in my birthday so he told me that he is going to fight with him and tell him not to get near him and I kept on begging him not to and then he turned his mobile off and today he didn't talk to me but he also didn't do any thing to the other guy is this jealousy or what
    *** answer
    I DON'T KNOW HOW TO TREAT HIM ANY MORE HE IS DRIVING ME CRAZY
  • May 5, 2011, 07:24 AM
    omhania
    Why isn't there any body answering [plzzz answer
  • May 5, 2011, 08:12 AM
    talaniman

    Because you don't seem to be willing to wrap your head around leaving him alone. He may not be a good choice of investing time and emotions into. So what is left to say, since you cannot see why we feel as we do, and are very determined to follow your heart down a road to confusion conflict, and a lot of unnecessary drama.

    And this isn't a blog, you have to wait for answers after you give input, feedback, updates, or any new info to the situation. Most of us are much older, and how old are you???
    I mean what is there to say when you ask for comments without updating what has happened the last two weeks since you posted.
  • May 5, 2011, 04:02 PM
    omhania
    Nothing happened we just don't see each other and we did twice one time he ignored me and the other he said hi and I'm not following my heart if I was following my heart then I would be with him now and I'm 17 years old
  • May 5, 2011, 07:19 PM
    talaniman

    Then this adventure into romance is over, and you let it die, and be ready for the next adventure. Have fun, there will be many adventures ahead.
  • May 6, 2011, 07:33 AM
    omhania
    OK but I'm really afraid right nw and when I feel my love to him is over he just makes something new that makes me think of him
    U understand?

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