Okay so there is this guy I REALLYY LIKE! Hes so shy though, and I don't have any classes with him and never talked to him in real life. Just over msn but in real life I say "hey" and things and he does too. I ALWAYS start the chat on msn and he's only started it like.. twice or something and I always just want to talk to him... I get asked out by a lot of guys and I always tell him my problems and he always helps me and stuff.. do you think he finds it annoying?
Anyway so sometimes when I start a chat with him he doesn't even really reply.. like he just ignores me but I Really just like want to talk to him! Does he like me? Once I said "i get asked out by a lot o guys" and he said "yeh u r rly nice" that's about it.. ahaha omg I just really like him!
He's SOO shy though <3 thanks

So about the shy guy again. Does he like me because he said I wasrly nice? What do guys mean when they say "Ur really nice" thanks

It probably means they think you are nice-but I would try to get to know this guy,in real life,rather than online-so next time you see him,talk to him.

But I'm so nervous.. haha I can't just talk to him! Hes so nervous to last time he talked to me he was like swearing he wassoo nervous and he culd hardly talk!

I think you're 14? so it's all part of growing up-taking risks.

If you don't ,you might never find out if he likes you or not.

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I think you're 14?,so it's all part of growing up-taking risks.

If you don't ,you might never find out if he likes you or not.

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She's 12 ;)

You know me too well ;)

Haha nooo! Im 12 by the way LOL! I can't he can talk to me firstt :o

Taylor, please use complete words and sentences. This isn't a chat room or a text message. 2= two unless you mean the number. This site requires the best use of the english language you are capable of.

If he is your age, he probably is shy because he doesn't know what he should do about you. I mean what experience does a 12 year old have? And where would he ask you out to?

He doesn't know what to do, and may be afraid since you seem to have so many guys asking you for dates.

At 12 years old,the best thing to do is go out in groups! Things won't be awkward and you guys can get to know each other as friends... cinema, the park, ice skating, and just hanging out in general...

Thanks! But I want HIM to ask me out! And I want HIM to start the chats on msn! I ALWAYS start the chats its so unfair

Thanks! But I'm really shy! How do I get HIM to start the chat on msn? I'm so sick of starting the chat already!! :/ plzplzplzpzl help mee

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GAHH this is about the guy I like again!
So I always start the chats and I just want him too! Do you think I should stop trying! Like he never starts the chats.. maybe just once or twice and I started it 40 times or something!! And he replies but sometimes he doesn't :/ so I don't know if he's interested or not. I know he has a crush on some other girl because he told me and uhh just should I stop trying? And how do I make him start the chat!!
Thanks <3

You don't "make" him do anthing. Either he wants to talk to you or he doesn't. Stop cheapening yourself and acting like a puppy. If he wants to talk he will and that's about it.

But how do I know if he's interested. So if he doesn't start the chat he doesn't like me?

You already said he likes another girl. If he doesn't start the chat, he's not interested.

Please get out of the notion you can make someone do what you want. Accept he doesn't do it for whatever reason, and if you both can't talk about it, shy as you both may be, then it never gets resolved, and things don't change.

Why can't you just be honest, and ask him why he never starts the chats?

Never expect others to do what you are afraid to do whether it seems fair or not. If it was so unfair, you would back down and give him a chance or forget chasing so hard after him.

He has his own reasons for what he does so find out what they are. Its called communicating. That's the best way to know whether they can agree, and make things fair. Try that, because I think that you see things one way, and he sees things in an entirely different way.

But omg... LOL! I have never talked to him in real life before.. only on msn! :o How am I supposed to just say that he doesn't start the chats!? But maybe,. he told me he has a crush on someone else Im not sure

I guess... but the other girl doesn't like him! Okay.. like because I get asked out by so many guys maybe one evry week he's always asking me how the guys are going and stuff.. but yup..

I got to tell you that not talking face to face is a huge drawback.

You can never think because you have certain feelings, he feels the same thing.

Ok.. thank you! I just want him to start the chat gahh ><

What if he doesn't want to?? Or can't??

I think that he thinks you're a good person and nice but he doesn't like you like that quite yet. Get to know him in real life! Say hi in the hallway! Do you guys have a class in the same area? Walk with him there! Any mutual interests? Invite him him to go with you to them! Just try small talk and evetually you guys will be hangin' just like good friends :)

Thank you so much! You helped a lot :) I think when school starts I will say hi haha! Hmm... no mutual interests though.. and we don't have any classes together but his eng class is in my homeroom and my eng class is in his :) Thanks <3

I want him too!

Or what? What will you do if he doesn't do what you want?

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First off, I'm a guy, and after your last comment, "I want him too!", and no other comment what do you expect? I wasn't trying to be rude, just getting an answer as to why you can't understand that its up to him and him only what he does about initiating contact with you.

If the fact that he doesn't bothers you, then maybe you stop initiating contact with him! Do you always get upset when you don't get your way?

Oh. Sorry I didn't mean to post that last comment. How old are you if you don't mind me asking? But like is there any way I can make him want to start the chat? Thanks.

Taylor, please stop asking us how old we are. Most of us are old enough to be your parents or grand parents.

In the end, you can't MAKE anyone do anything. If he doesn't want to start the chat he isn't going to. Déjà vu... I think I've already told you that.

What are you doing on chats at 12 years old anyway? Don't you have parents? I would never allow my children on chats or in chat rooms at that age!

You even mentioned that you never met him face-to-face. How do you know he's not a perverted old man?

Oh. Hes in my school lol. I see him like everyday!!