I recently met this guy and he is so different to all the guys I know. He's funny, good looking and we have so much in common it's unbelieveable we have been speaking for about 2 months now, we speak for hours most nights and see each other sometimes, it's definitely obvious we are into each other. But there's this other girl, they have been speaking for about 6 months and he told me about her when I met him but I didn't think much of it because I didn't think it would turn to anything like it is with me and him. They also talk all the time too and he told me he kind of likes her and then tells my friend he's stuck between us both. I don't want to get myself stuck into a stupid mess and end up getting hurt so I was going to end our little thing tonight but I don't really know, I like him a lot :(

Hi, annieeeeex33!

Have you ever been in a close relationship with a guy before, please?

Thanks!

Yess I have

Have you ever known people to date more than one person at a time?

Yess I have but isn't this wrong? I don't want to be just... the other girl

Are you both in school, please?

Dating more than one person isn't unusual. But, it does depend on the circumstances.

No both just left few months ago

True yes but I'm not sure if it's okay in this situation which is why I'm not sure to say anything about it or not and step out of the way

Do you mean that you've both graduated or are just off on break?

Both just graduated

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by annieeeeex33

true yes but i'm not sure if it's okay in this situation which is why i'm not sure to say anything about it or not and step out of the way

---

It's best to be honest and upfront so that all persons know what's going on.

But, I'm waiting for your answer to my most recent question.

Oops! I see that you answered!

From college or university?

School actually, lol I'm only 16

How do I veiw your most recent question? Sorry I'm new to this

Okay. I was thinking college. So, you're on break then?

At the college level, it would be more common to stick with one person. Although, dating more than one person does happen, especially if one of the people hasn't dated a lot in the past.

As a mid-teen, it's not unusual for relationships to be on again, off again. It's a time to explore. Have either of you dated others a lot and do you both attend the same school, please?

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by annieeeeex33

how do i veiw your most recent question? sorry i'm new to this

---

I don't know which "skin" (look) it is that you're using for the site. But for me, my previous question about which you're inquiring is on the previous page.

There should be page numbers visible somewhere...

Did I lose you here, annieeeeex33?

Haha I'm being thick I don't quite know how to get onto it

I think that you mean the site. Correct?

Anyway, you should be able to see the most recent things that I've posted.

I'll be around again sometime, cheryle67. But, for me, it's very early in the morning and I haven't even been to sleep yet!

Please speak with the guy. Tell him how you feel. Ask him what his intentions are. He might be wanting to date only you or the other girl. Hard to know without speaking with him. If he does only want to date the other girl, it's possible that he's having a hard time telling you that he doesn't want to continue with a close relationship with you.

Hard to know... Doesn't mean that that is the way things really are...

Please speak with him.

If we had been able to communicate more here now, I would be able to get a better idea as to what the situation really is.

Later...

Thanks! :)

Tell him how you feel about him and see what he says if you like him that much