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Is it really that bad? I didn't see anything wrong with it.

Is it really that bad 2 exchange naked pics wit dudes?? I mean, were not touching each other or having sex or anything. Its pics. This is the 2nd tym my mama cot me wit XXX pics and my fone and this tym I'm nvr getting my fone bak. I don't c anything rong wit it

First off, rules of the site say you must use proper grammar.

Second, yes it is. If you are under 18, pictures of you like that is illegal. Sending anything like that to anyone under 18 is illegal regardless of your age.

Everything about it if either you or the others are under 18 is just plain illegal.

It is wrong and you could get yourself into a lot of trouble. These boys are going to show these pictures to everyone. How old are you?

I don't mind. I show the stuff they send me to people

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

I dont mind. i show the stuff they send me to people

This whole thing is illegal! Whether you mind it or not

Hi, Simone21295!

Is it really that bad? Please click on the following link and read some of the articles.

LINK

Yes. Please also use proper English spelling and grammar on this site. If you don't, then you risk having your posts deleted. This isn't a chat room.

Thanks!

Who's name is your phone in, Simone21295?

Also, you've already been asked about your age. An answer would be appreciated!

Thanks!

I'm 15

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

im 15

First off, you are too young for this stuff. Second, you can be charged with distribution of child pornography

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

im 15

I don't have to tell you the dangers and what the repercussions from your actions will be. I've read some of your other threads and I really feel you need to speak with a counselor or someone who can help you build up yourself esteem.

Nude pictures of yourself isn't going to do that! What that is going to lead too is you either being hurt by someone or get yourself a bad reputation around school. Those boys aren't going to like you better because you sent naked photos of yourself to them' They will joke about it and show it around.

Wise up little girl and get help. You have put yourself in danger by doing this.

So... you're upset your mother took the phone. First of all, even if you bought the phone and you are paying the monthly bills for service (are you?) she still has the right to do what she believes is needed to keep you safe. You don't have to agree. She has the trump card. When you are legally an adult, you can send as much skin out there as you wish.

Legally... its really inconsistent. Lets say you send something to a friend. That friend passes it on to another. That other is legally an adult. If he is caught in the wrong state, he can be convicted of possession of child porn and must register as a sex offender.

Sorry... in this area, it is best to be "too overbearing"...

A young guy who thinks its funny to streak across a public park might end up as a convicted sex offender. Might not be the intent of the law, but in some cases, it doesn't matter.

Your mother knows about this. What if she let you do this? What if some other parent found out and called the police?

Show your mother the respect she deserves when she's asked you not to do this.

It isn't all about you.

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

I dont mind. i show the stuff they send me to people

So you don't mind who sees it? Not even if your parents see you or your friends parents? You don't mind the world seeing you in that light? That is where it is headed. Don't cheapen yourself. Your body is a temple and so are the images of it. Only share that with someone your married to. Not with strangers. Because no matter how well you think you know the people your sending stuff to its bound to get into a strangers hands. Plus its illegal. That is a whole other ball of wax. Don't even go there and stay out of trouble.

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

Is it rly that bad jus 2 exchange naked pics wit dudes??? i mean, were not touchin each other or havin sex or anythin. its jus pics. this is the 2nd tym my mama cot me wit XXX pics n my fone and this tym im nvr gettin my fone bak. i dnt c anythin rong wit it

I didn't understand most of what you wrote, I don't speak gibberish, but, if you're sending out nude pictures of yourself at the age of 15, well, you're headed for jail. It's not as glamorous as the movies make it out to be.

I'm going to tell you what's wrong with sending out nude pictures. First, it's illegal at your age. If you're caught by the wrong person, you will be convicted of distributing child porn, because guess what, you're a child!

Second, you're making yourself look cheap. Act like a cheap bleep and that's how people will treat you. You get the respect you demand, and by doing this, you're not demanding any respect. The guys will drool, yes, and they will come around. Once they get what they expect from a girl that does what you're doing, they'll leave, and tell all their friends. Teen boys love easy girls like you.

Third, if you keep this up, you'll have no future. You'll be used up by the time you're 20. Most guys will look at you as the person you're projecting to be, easy, cheap, uneducated, trash. Trust me, when a guy is looking for a girlfriend, you're not the type that they look at. You're a good time, a one night stand, but that's it. Is that what you want?

You can still turn this around, there's still time. Your mom did the right thing by removing your phone. I hope she keeps it until you learn to respect yourself, your body, and the law.

Wake up and smell the coffee, before you're drinking it in a jail cell.

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Originally Posted by Clough

Who's name is your phone in, Simone21295?

Also, you've already been asked about your age. An answer would be appreciated!

Thanks!

My mom is paying on my phone for me. I don't pay for anything

Then your mom should know about the nude photo's. You say she does I say if she does and allows this to go on , something is wrong.

Let your mother read these post and we'll see if she knows.

At the end of the day, moral issues aside, it is illegal, if you are underage, sending them out to anyone is a crime.. You can be put on probation or sent to detention for doing it.
Or have a fine ( which your mom would have to pay)

Next normally if you send it to one person, it is then sent to several others at some point and time

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Originally Posted by Altenweg

I didn't understand most of what you wrote, I don't speak gibberish, but, if you're sending out nude pictures of yourself at the age of 15, well, you're headed for jail. It's not as glamorous as the movies make it out to be.

I'm going to tell you what's wrong with sending out nude pictures. First, it's illegal at your age. If you're caught by the wrong person, you will be convicted of distributing child porn, because guess what, you're a child!

Second, you're making yourself look cheap. Act like a cheap bleep and that's how people will treat you. You get the respect you demand, and by doing this, you're not demanding any respect. The guys will drool, yes, and they will come around. Once they get what they expect from a girl that does what you're doing, they'll leave, and tell all their friends. Teen boys love easy girls like you.

Third, if you keep this up, you'll have no future. You'll be used up by the time you're 20. Most guys will look at you as the person you're projecting to be, easy, cheap, uneducated, trash. Trust me, when a guy is looking for a girlfriend, you're not the type that they look at. You're a good time, a one night stand, but that's it. Is that what you want?

You can still turn this around, there's still time. Your mom did the right thing by removing your phone. I hope she keeps it until you learn to respect yourself, your body, and the law.

Wake up and smell the coffee, before you're drinking it in a jail cell.

Sorry about my grammar. I forgot I had to use proper english here.

I already have a boyfriend. He is a really nice guy. He doesn't know about the pictures and stuff. I can't tell him. So in sending those pictures I was sort of cheating on him.
I didn't do it because I wanted guys to like me. They already do. I did it because I wanted to and it was fun.
I agree with you though about it being a good thing for her to take my phone away because if I had the chance to do it again I know I would.

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Originally Posted by Clough
Who's name is your phone in, Simone21295?

Also, you've already been asked about your age. An answer would be appreciated!

Thanks!

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

My mom is paying on my phone for me. I don't pay for anything

So then, I assume that the phone is in her name. Correct?

If indeed, it is in her name, and if something truly illegal is transmitted electronically by using it, and if that transmission is traced to the source, then guess who it gets traced to?

Also, if she's paying for the phone, don't you think that you should abiding by any of her rules with using the cell phone? I mean, it is her money and she is your mother and only wants what would be the best for you!

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

I don't have to tell you the dangers and what the repercussions from your actions will be. I've read some of your other threads and I really feel you need to speak with a counselor or someone who can help you build up your self esteem.

Nude pictures of yourself isn't going to do that! What that is going to lead too is you either being hurt by someone or get yourself a bad reputation around school. Those boys aren't going to like you better because you sent naked photos of yourself to them' They will joke about it and show it around.

Wise up little girl and get help. You have put yourself in danger by doing this.

I already had a therapist at school about some other problems I was having. Its summer break now and she won't be back at my school next year.

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Originally Posted by Altenweg
I didn't understand most of what you wrote, I don't speak gibberish, but, if you're sending out nude pictures of yourself at the age of 15, well, you're headed for jail. It's not as glamorous as the movies make it out to be.

I'm going to tell you what's wrong with sending out nude pictures. First, it's illegal at your age. If you're caught by the wrong person, you will be convicted of distributing child porn, because guess what, you're a child!

Second, you're making yourself look cheap. Act like a cheap bleep and that's how people will treat you. You get the respect you demand, and by doing this, you're not demanding any respect. The guys will drool, yes, and they will come around. Once they get what they expect from a girl that does what you're doing, they'll leave, and tell all their friends. Teen boys love easy girls like you.

Third, if you keep this up, you'll have no future. You'll be used up by the time you're 20. Most guys will look at you as the person you're projecting to be, easy, cheap, uneducated, trash. Trust me, when a guy is looking for a girlfriend, you're not the type that they look at. You're a good time, a one night stand, but that's it. Is that what you want?

You can still turn this around, there's still time. Your mom did the right thing by removing your phone. I hope she keeps it until you learn to respect yourself, your body, and the law.

Wake up and smell the coffee, before you're drinking it in a jail cell.

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

Sorry about my grammar. I forgot I had to use proper english here.

I already have a boyfriend. He is a really nice guy. He doesn't know about the pictures and stuff. I can't tell him. So in sending those pictures I was sort of cheating on him.
I didn't do it because I wanted guys to like me. They already do. I did it because I wanted to and it was fun.
I agree with you though about it being a good thing for her to take my phone away because if I had the chance to do it again I know I would.

Did you take the time to read any of the articles on websites to which I posted a link to a search?

So you say you don't want your boyfriend to find out? He will, trust me. Those photos of you are out there and I would say it's only a matter of time.

I'm glad your mother took the phone. I hope she keeps it. Do you even have an inkling of what sort of trouble you may have brought on you and your mom?
Do you care? Obviously you don't if you say you would do it again.

I don't think you are fifteen.. I think you're younger or at least you look younger in the picture you posted.

You need help young lady. I hope you find someone you can talk with , like a counselor or a minister. If you don't stop this behavior I see nothing but trouble and heartache for you.

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Originally Posted by Clough

Did you take the time to read any of the articles on websites to which I posted a link to a search?

Yes I did and I understand it is illegal now

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

So you say you don't want your boyfriend to find out? He will, trust me. Those photos of you are out there and I would say it's only a matter of time.

I'm glad your mother took the phone. I hope she keeps it. Do you even have an inkling of what sort of trouble you may have brought on you and your mom?
Do you care? Obviously you don't if you say you would do it again.

I don't think you are fifteen..I think you're younger or at least you look younger in the picture you posted.

You need help young lady. I hope you find someone you can talk with , like a counselor or a minister. If you don't stop this behavior I see nothing but trouble and heartache for you.

I am 15. That picture of me is 2 years old.

How did your MOM find these things and take your phone if you live with your grandmother?

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Originally Posted by Clough
Did you take the time to read any of the articles on websites to which I posted a link to a search?

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

Yes I did and I understand it is illegal now

That's good! And, do you now realize that anything that you transmit electronically via a phone isn't going to be potentially truly private, but can have far-reaching ramifications once information is in the hands of someone else other than the person who transmitted it?

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

how did your MOM find these things and take your phone if you live with your grandmother?

I call my grandma mom because I have been living with her since I was 2 months old. She is my mom, the only 1 I know. I have only met my real mom a few times.

Good question Emop!!

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Originally Posted by Clough

That's good! And, do you now realize that anything that you transmit electronically via a phone isn't going to be potentially truly private, but can have far-reaching ramifications once information is in the hands of someone else other than the person who transmitted it?

It's a trade not a hand out. They have pictures of me and I have pictures of them. I don't think they would do that to me knowing I could do the same to them.

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx
How did your MOM find these things and take your phone if you live with your grandmother?

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

I call my grandma mom because I have been living with her since I was 2 months old. She is my mom, the only 1 I know. I have only met my real mom a few times.

That's okay. The real parent is the one who plays the part anyway!

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Originally Posted by Clough
That's good! And, do you now realize that anything that you transmit electronically via a phone isn't going to be potentially truly private, but can have far-reaching ramifications once information is in the hands of someone else other than the person who transmitted it?

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It's a trade not a hand out. They have pictures of me and I have pictures of them. I don't think they would do that to me knowing I could do the same to them.

Trade or not, the images are out there. Why take a risk like that?

I'm not trying to shock you, (well, maybe not too much!), but I'd like for you to click on the following link and tell me what comes up as being the number one "hit" on the first page of the search.

LINK

They don't care. Guys will show pictures around. Don't be so sure some of their parent's haven't already seen them

You should be ashamed to do this and bring shame on your grandmother who raised you. How do you think she's going to feel?

You have also shamed yourself. Just for kicks is that what it was for. I'm afraid this will blow up in your face and you may end up in juvie and you deserve it for being so cavileir about this whole thing.

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Originally Posted by Clough

Trade or not, the images are out there. Why take a risk like that?

I'm not trying to shock you, (well, maybe not too much!), but I'd like for you to click on the following link and tell me what comes up as being the number one "hit" on the first page of the search.

LINK

WHAT?? Wow, its on Google?

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

They don't care. Guys will show pictures around. Don't be so sure some of their parent's haven't already seen them

You should be ashamed to do this and bring shame on your grandmother who raised you. How do you think she's going to feel?

You have also shamed yourself. Just for kicks is that what it was for. I'm afraid this will blow up in your face and you may end up in juvie and you deserve it for being so cavileir about this whole thing.

Well, I was when my mom found them.

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Originally Posted by Clough

Trade or not, the images are out there. Why take a risk like that?

I'm not trying to shock you, (well, maybe not too much!), but I'd like for you to click on the following link and tell me what comes up as being the number one "hit" on the first page of the search.

LINK

That is sort of scary.

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

That is sort of scary.

Good... You should be scared.

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Originally Posted by Clough
Trade or not, the images are out there. Why take a risk like that?

I'm not trying to shock you, (well, maybe not too much!), but, I'd like for you to click on the following link and tell me what comes up as being the number one "hit" on the first page of the search.

LINK

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

That is sort of scary.

Yes, it is! And, that showed up only about eight hours after you started the thread and without using a vanity search! Heck, you did better for appearing first on a Google search than many businesses that spend thousands of dollars for search engine optimization!

But, I hope that you might be learning something...

Also, please notice the other kind of links that show up in the search and their related words - "naked pics", "bad a$$", "exchange of images", "two naked maids roaming around his place?", "i wnat you to let him catcj you naked and seee what he sayz", "What the .... is this I'm looking at?", etc.

Do you really want what you post or send to come up being associated with certain types of topics - some of which the content might have even been banned by a site administrator because of the content being against norms of decency and maybe even illegal in the nature of it?

So now your thread is accessible to millions of people around the world via Google.

It takes just one person to do the same with your naked pictures , see now that's scary... and it's FOREVER :cool:

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Originally Posted by Clough

Trade or not, the images are out there. Why take a risk like that?

I'm not trying to shock you, (well, maybe not too much!), but, I'd like for you to click on the following link and tell me what comes up as being the number one "hit" on the first page of the search.

LINK

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

WHAT?? Wow, its on Google?

I sorry, I missed that one response by you! Wow, is right!

Just think of the power that you could be harnessing by spending time putting good and useful information on the Internet so that you and your loved ones might be able to make some money!

There are sick, twisted people in this world who would do anything to anybody to get their kicks.

You have left yourself open to someone seeing those pictures.
Not only that, think of the young people who are raped and murdered because of something like this.

There's no question in my mind at all that you are younger than you say you are. I hope you're scared and I hope you have enough sense to stop this behavior.

What happens if one of those pictures turn up on a porn site?
You can't undo what you've done
But you can learn from it.

Look. Its fun to be bad. No surprise there.

And lets be real here... development of sexuality starts Long before legal age... so... the drive and the interest you have isn't odd or new or unfamiliar to most of us.

If you are going to act like an adult, you need to think like one... and that includes an understanding of what are the ramifications of your actions.

My mother was a straight A student. The good girl who walked the straight line. Who became a mother at the age of early 17. It happens. You know this. That the thing that drives you sometimes has unintended consequences.

Likewise, you MUST act as if anything you send out is known to everybody, everywhere. Just plan on it. There are sites full of "pass it on" pics and videos that some trusting girl sent to some guy who then kept it moving along...

Just because you give something in good faith doesn't mean the recipient will safeguard it in good faith long term...

This isn't about your drive or interest being wrong. We all have some degree of flirtiness and sensuality. Its about the very real liklihood that anything you send to any boy being "out there" in public forever.

Once I hit the enter key... my post is no longer mine. Its no longer private.