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  • Jun 21, 2010, 03:15 PM
    karatehottie14
    14 year old dating sites
    Im a 14 year old girl and have nothing to do over vacation and everyone's saying that its about time that I get a boyfreind and I have to agree are there any non dangerous dating sites that I can become a member of?
  • Jun 21, 2010, 03:39 PM
    BWK10

    Too young...
  • Jun 21, 2010, 03:47 PM
    karatehottie14
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by BWK10 View Post
    Too young...

    Too bad I'm bored and I need a boy friend
  • Jun 21, 2010, 03:48 PM
    J_9
    You don't need a boyfriend to define you. You are still young and have your whole life ahead of you.
  • Jun 21, 2010, 03:51 PM
    aleeyafgy

    I am with you same age and the same promble you can go on imvu that's were I am and I meat this guy that I like maybe you can try it
  • Jun 21, 2010, 03:52 PM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by aleeyafgy View Post
    i am with u same age and the same promble u can go on imvu thats were i am and i meat this guy that i like maybe u can try it

    And that guy could be a 45 year old pervert too. ;)
  • Jun 21, 2010, 03:56 PM
    aleeyafgy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    And that guy could be a 45 year old pervert too. ;)

    Yea that's ture but were just frinds I don't need a boyfriend rite now I just need someone to talk to oky and she dose not need a boyfriend she just needs something to she can go there and find frinds of her age group
  • Jun 21, 2010, 03:56 PM
    Lucky098

    Dating websites are not for kids. They're for working adults who don't have a social life (ha ha)

    You should join a club or activity for the summer such as 4-H, Park & Rec. YMCA.. Volunteer some place.. I'm sure you will find someone your age.

    Dating online is dangerous. I hate how those TV commercials promote online dating. There are a lot of creeps out there who target young, dumb girls.
  • Jun 21, 2010, 04:06 PM
    karatehottie14
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by aleeyafgy View Post
    i am with u same age and the same promble u can go on imvu thats were i am and i meat this guy that i like maybe u can try it

    I already tried it before it messed up my co puter and said I needed to pay for it =/
  • Jun 21, 2010, 04:12 PM
    karatehottie14
    anyone want to be my boyfriend?
    I'm bored over vacation live in hampstead and I miss having a boyfriend he moved to far away =/
  • Jun 21, 2010, 04:15 PM
    CarrotTalker

    How about reading about topics that interest you, such as psychology, nature, biology, etc?

    You could also join a sports team or art group?
  • Jun 21, 2010, 04:41 PM
    JK191

    You don't need a boyfriend to have fun. I'd actually advise you to use this summer to learn this really important lesson of life.
  • Jun 21, 2010, 04:55 PM
    friend4u178

    At your age female friends are much more fun , and a lot less drama ;)
  • Jun 21, 2010, 08:40 PM
    positiveparent

    You're still quite young, so enjoy life you can get into boyfriends and relationships in a year maybe, there's really no rush you know you've got your whole life ahead of you, enjoy it, live it, love can come later...
  • Jun 21, 2010, 08:45 PM
    positiveparent

    What an earth are you wanting dating sites for a b/f at your age, don't look for love through the computer, there's a ton of 14 yr old boys on the planet, and to be honest at 14 you are really much too young to be bothered about b./f.

    Live your life and see the world, then start thinking about relationships.

    Like I mentioned in another post you left on this site, there's no rush...
  • Jun 21, 2010, 08:47 PM
    Lucky098

    Honey, you're only 14 years old. Stop coming off as a desperate person. Its really not that attractive.

    Be kind to yourself and have a wonderful summer with your friends and family. Plus.. Many summer flings happen. They're just as enjoyable as any other type of relationship.. some last a while too.

    Don't define your summer fun on having a boyfriend or not... boyfriends aren't all that much fun ;) In fact, sometimes they get in the way :)
  • Jun 21, 2010, 08:51 PM
    aimee_tt

    You don't need a dating site. You need to get out doors and go out with your friends.

    If you have no friends then well that's a different story.

    You need a chat website. Go to Google and type in teen chat and find one that is moditored!

    BUT DO NOT MEET ANYONE ONLINE!
  • Jun 21, 2010, 09:39 PM
    Clough
    Hi, karatehottie14!

    What sort of things do you like to do on your own, please?

    I have lots of ideas for activities that you might enjoy doing. Some of them could even be done on this site!

    For me, being bored isn't even something that I ever consider being!

    Thanks!
  • Jun 21, 2010, 09:44 PM
    BWK10

    Pretty sure this is probably some bored homer guy sitting at home being bored.
  • Jun 21, 2010, 09:47 PM
    Clough
    Hi again, karatehottie14!

    Like I've already mentioned on your other thread.

    There's lots of things to do on this site...

    Thanks!
  • Jun 21, 2010, 09:51 PM
    Clough
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by BWK10

    Too young...
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by karatehottie14 View Post
    too bad I'm bored and I need a boy friend

    Even when I was 14, being bored was never an option.

    If you'd like to know how that's accomplished, please let me know on this thread.

    Thanks!
  • Jun 22, 2010, 06:30 AM
    talaniman

    I would be bored too, if I had to rely on someone else's attention to entertain me. Get out and do things, and make friends through activities where young people have fun.

    Even family events is a chance to enjoy yourself. Sports is a great way not to be bored.

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/no-chat-speak-no-text-talk-303157.html

    Just to be fair, Before you post again, everyone. Read the rule above and save yourself from being deleted.
  • Jun 22, 2010, 07:04 AM
    Curlyben
    Most dating sites have a minimum age for membership, normally 18.
  • Jun 22, 2010, 12:27 PM
    Kitkat22

    Do your parents know your're on this site? I bet they don't. All of us can tell you how dangerous they are and you probably say "won't happen to me".

    Read the newspapers and watch the news... You should stay off the chat lines with people you don't know.
  • Jun 22, 2010, 12:52 PM
    kappa_exprt
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by karatehottie14 View Post
    Im a 14 year old girl and have nothing to do over vacation and everyones saying that its about time that i get a boyfreind and i have to agree are there any non dangerous dating sites that i can become a member of?

    You are just 14 years old. Its too young age for dating. Understand what's your priority, decide your goals, decide what career to be followed, bcoz once your climb up the ladder of your career goals, you can have boyfriends till 40.
  • Jun 22, 2010, 12:57 PM
    Kitkat22

    Bored.. was never a word I used at your age. My mom always found something for me to do if I was "bored". I became unbored very quickly.
  • Jun 22, 2010, 07:19 PM
    positiveparent

    Sorry Kit have to spread the rep, drat...

    I agree though, bored what's bored, if my parents even thought I was bored out would come the broom or lawn mower or my siblings, so I avoided bored like the plague.
  • Jun 22, 2010, 07:20 PM
    Kitkat22

    You need to find something to do.
    Help your Mom clean house... babysit... voulunteer to read to people at a Nursing Home.
  • Jun 22, 2010, 09:24 PM
    Clough
    What are your parents like, karatehottie14?

    Thanks!
  • Jun 27, 2010, 07:44 PM
    Senetor9
    Even though I was dating during the school year I think that 14 is a young age to be going on chat sites or something. I'm 14 and need a girlfriend but I actually go out and ask people to go on dates with me. At my old school I use to help people with relationships even though I was a single.


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  • Jun 27, 2010, 07:49 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Senetor9 View Post
    Even though I was dating during the school year I think that 14 is a young age to be going on chat sites or something. I'm 14 and need a gf but I actually go out and ask people to go on dates with me. At my old school I use to help people with relationships even though I was a single.



    A fourteen year old does not need another fourteen year old to advise her on how to "score". Both of you need to concentrate on being young.
  • Jun 27, 2010, 08:10 PM
    positiveparent

    Sorry kat have to spread the rep, seems that's all I do LOL.

    Yes 14 is way too young to advise another 14 year old, you won't have had the experience needed to give advice and the other 14 yr old will be reluctant to take your advice.

    Also you shouldn't be helping anyone else to score you've to learn how to get by in the dating game by living through it and experiencing it, there are no short cuts and besides you don't need it at 14, you've got your whole life ahead of you..

    Both you and the OP...
  • Jun 27, 2010, 08:11 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by positiveparent View Post
    sorry kat have to spread the rep, seems thats all I do LOL.

    Yes 14 is way too young to advise another 14 year old, you wont have had the experience needed to give advice and the other 14 yr old will be reluctant to take your advice.

    Also you shouldnt be helping anyone else to score youve to learn how to get by in the dating game by living through it and experiencing it, there are no short cuts and besides you dont need it at 14, youve got your whole life ahead of you..

    Both you and the OP...

    Exactlt... Well said.:)
  • Oct 1, 2010, 09:06 PM
    CuttieKitty15
    Sorry can't help 'cause I'm in the same bind as well. All the sites I've come across you have to be 18. Try getting real social in school and open up a little bit more, if your already like that then I can't help you an just discard this information. Bye!

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