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I like this guy and he says he likes this other girl, but he never talks to her. I think he likes me because he always says he wants to make out with me and other stuff that I'm not going to share. He always asks who I like and stuff related to liking or kissing. He liked me all last year and I didn't like him back then. Did I blow my chances?
Sounds like he wants a friends with benefits arrangement. I'm guessing that you're not on the same page?
If you can't get on the same page, then leave each other alone, otherwise you're just setting yourself up for disappointment.
He likes you all right and would be more than happy to use your body. So no, you didn't blow your chance, if you give him what he wants from you.
My friend said she's going to talk to him about it. Should I just tell him I like him or just let my friend get all the questions out of him and leave it there?
You need to chill! Concentrate on school. Leave the guy alone. If he were interested, he would have told you by now!
Well he kind of has!
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Originally Posted by hallie78
He tells me he wants to makeout with me and some other stuff
That is not like. That is lust ! He likes someone else and tells you he wants to make out and "other stuff". The other stuff young lady is him wanting to get into your pants. I hope you are smart enough to know the difference. I'll bet he's told other girls the same thing. Don't fall for it! How old are you? How old is he?Quote:
Originally Posted by hallie78
Never mind you don't no what your talking about
What's this other stuff? Going places to have fun, or getting over your house when your parents aren't home and doing the naughty with you?
Why can't you tell us how old you are? Is it because Kit Kat is right, and you don't want to be wrong?
Why can't you talk to the guy yourself? Why do you need a friend to do it for you?
Wer both 14 and of course I'm not doing it with him! I'm waaay smarter then that! Its called abstinence!
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Sure you are... Don't you realize at fourteen his hormones and yours are raging? It may be innocent now but how would you feel if you go out with this guy and those raging hormones kick in. Pregnant or STD and him bragging about you being an easy conquest!
I'm not saying this to hurt you or make you feel bad about yourself.. Boys that age have a way of wanting to be the school "stud". You are way to young to be dating. Wait another year or two before you even consider getting a boyfriend and maybe by that time you will be mature enough to know the difference in love and lust. Good luck
Be phone pals, and see each other at school, as I doubt your parents let you do more than that any way, without lying to them.
I'm not to young to have a boyfriend... I've had a ton since I was like 10. Im not having sex with anyone and he probably doesn't really mean it.
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Your parents allowed you to have boyfriends at ten years old! I don't believe that for a second! What year of school are you in? What is your GPA? You want advice here goes, leave the guy alone. Concentrate on your education! Fourteen is much to young to date! :rolleyes:
My parents don't care! Its nothing serious! I'm in A B honor role! I go to private school and I'm really smart! I don't even have to tell my parents if I have a boyfriend because they trust me! Just because I've gone out with a bunch of guys doesn't mean I'm not smart. I'm sure you think I'm a slut but I'm not. I've got guys who really want to go out with me but I turn them down for the guy I actually like. That's not slutty at all. How old are you? And when did you have your first boyfriend or kiss?
Old enough to know a line of bull! Didn't say you were a slut! Grow up!Quote:
Originally Posted by hallie78
I am pretty old enough to keep myself in line! I'm grown up enough! I'm sorry that guys like me and sounds like they weren't so interested in you when you were my age
You have had a ton of boyfriends, so why are you worried about this one?
Yes they were interested, but my parents had enough sense to know fourteen was too young to date. My parents loved me enough to know I wasn't mature enough to be in a relationship. My parents taught me to respect other people. My parents were loving, caring hard working, honest people. Seems you missed the boat on all these traits.Quote:
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Because I like him... and not sure if he likes me back. He liked me last year and he told me liked me like a month ago and I had a boyfriend then so I told him I didn't like him and I don't know now
Nope actually I'm all of them. Why would my parent not be any of those traits because I've had boyfriends. That's really stupid! If you heard yourself...
You said they didn't care. Sounds like they really don't care what you do.Quote:
Originally Posted by hallie78
Also since you're so smart you should read the rules about using text letters on a post. IT IS NOT ALLOWED! Stupid is as stupid does little girl!
O my god! Seriously? U read the rules? Well I don't care, I don't read rules!
Hallie, if you're smart enough and mature enough to date, then you should be smart enough to read the rules of this site. You agreed to them when you signed up, so I suggest you follow them.Quote:
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Text speak is what people do when they can't write properly. When I see text speak I think that the person is either too lazy to write out words, or not smart enough to write them out.
So, show us how smart you are. Follow the rules you agreed to and write in complete words. If not, I'll report this thread and the mods can deal with you.
We do not allow text speak on this site. That rule is for everyone. If you want to post here, follow the rules. It's that simple.
Before posting again please refer to this announcement: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...ens-board.html
I'm going to step in here. First, I do think 14 is old enough to start dating, but just barely. As to having boyfriends since you were 10, I suspect they were not real boyfriends. Nowadays tweeners want to grow up too fast so they have boyfriends weekly. It means nothing and is not true dating.
You do seem to have a level head on you about sex and that's good. But you seem to take advice poorly. There are rules everywhere and you have to know them and abide by them to keep out of trouble. In addition to your continually using chat speak, you have been rude and insulting to people who are just trying to help you.
I don't believe your description of your parents. Loving and caring parents will involve themselves in their children's lives. They will want to know who their child is hanging out with and especially who they are dating. If yours truly do not care, then there is a problem here.
Your problem with this boy seems to be the typical teen angst that goes with budding relationships at your age. But I am bothered by the fact that he seems to want nothing but a physical relationship with you. At least that's the impression you have given us.
One thing we have had enough is a smart mouth brat being disrespectful so this thread is closed but not deleted as a warning to others who act like trolls.
I'm adding one more response here. First, may I call your attention to the guidelines for using the comments feature found here:
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/feedba...ture-24951.htm
You twice used the feature inappropriately.
hallie78 disagrees : that is really stupid! who wud waste there time and read that. seriously? trty me? report me !
People who care about doing things correctly. How is that that the vast majority of threads do not involve people breaking the rules?
hallie78 disagrees : hahahah nothing happens if ur reported! yall r real mature! i have something to say to u but if i say it i may be reported again! serioiusly i bet all u do is look at this website all day! well us normal ppl call it freaks ok so go comment on someone
Nothing happens? Did you read the infraction message you received? Posts will get deleted, members will be banned if they refuse to follow the rules! Is it mature to defy the rules of someplace you joined? Its all a defensive reaction to lash out and insult people when you know you have been caught doing something wrong.
hallie78 agrees : a troll? hahah ok! im not a smart mouth brat! i hav a good smart mouth! man i shud get my parents into this so they can like yell at u!
Please do have your parents join in so they can see what type of rude daughter they raised.
hallie78 agrees : my pareents do know who i go out with! ok how do like delete questions?
That's not the impression you gave earlier. You don't delete questions.
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