Mother forcing us to break up
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Hello there. So here's my/our problem:
I'm 17, 18 in August.
She's 15, 16 in September.
I'm going off to college next year, albeit only an hour away.
We've been together for nearly 8 months, and I can honestly say we're in love.
We've fallen asleep on the phone together every night since last November.
Prom is in a couple days, and we're going together, etc.
Sounds pretty good, right?
Well today her mom told her that we have to end our relationship before I go off to college, or else she's going to force us to break up. She said she doesn't want her to get hurt by me changing or something while I'm at college. That is a slightly valid reason, but I'm not really the person to change myself to fit in, and a bunch of my friends are going to the same college as me.
How can we convince her mom to not force this upon us? Any INTELLIGENT thoughts would be greatly appreciated.
How do I tell my parents that my girlfriend and I are having sex?
Hello again,
My girlfriend and I have been going out for over 2 years (28 months was yesterday), and have been having sex since last Valentine's day. However, parents are unaware of this (or so we think). Is there any "good" way to tell your parents that you're having sex? And is there a way to convince them that they should leave the house for awhile (on a day like this Sunday) without being rude, or weird for lack of a better word?
Edit: Forgot to add this, I'm a Sophomore (in college) and she is a Senior (in high school).
All help is appreciated! Thanks a lot.
Long Distance Relationship has hit a snag
I apologize if I seemed rude in my last post.
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a couple years now (getting close to 3), with me being almost done with my sophomore year of college and her finishing up her senior year of high school. I got to college about an hour away from her, and she plans to go to college in the same area as high school, so it will remain about an hour away once she goes to college. We are from the same town, so during the summer the distance is not an issue. However, due to jobs and such, we will not see each other this summer as we would like to, and she is worried about this. She is getting very stressed out about the possibility of having to spend several more years apart during the school years and doesn't know if she'll be able to do it and still be happy. I have no idea how to answer this problem, as she doesn't want to break up, but I have no ideas how to make it easier on us. I go home on average every other weekend during the school year to see her. She doesn't want to sacrifice making friends in college to be with me every weekend, but she still wants to see me as much as possible, which contradicts itself a little, but whatever. So I guess my question is, does anyone have any tips, hints, ideas to make things more fun while we're apart or to relieve stress while we're apart or anything of that sort? Your help is MUCH appreciated.