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Well I have a little problem I can't get a better loking boyfriend but all the boyfriends that I get are ugly

I wonder if they think the same thing? People who are too into looks will never be happy

How old are you please?

Have you seen the movie "Shallow Hal"?

I think that it's "ugly" that you judge so wrongly.

Having a hot boyfriend doesn't matter. If you are only dating guys for their looks, you could end up with an abusive, controlling boyfriend- and what is a hot boyfriend worth when he treats you like crap? Good looks should not be your main priority when you're looking for boyfriend material. If you are just dating for the heck of having a boyfriend, being popular, or nailing the best lookin', smokin' hot guy in the county, you shouldn't be dating.

I don't have a boyfriend because I need some one to always ask if I'm all right when I'm sad and really has the nerv to say "I love u" and to protect me from my ex's past. And stay with me until I die and good looking



NOT TO JUST HAVE A BOYFRIEND BUT SOME ONE TO LOVE ME FOR ME!

How old are you?

How can you meet new people when your 16 and not able to go to bars or any thing that you would see in a movie but really how can I find some one in my state that I could talk to?

Movies are not real life. At 16 you should be participating in school clubs, and other similar activities. That's how you meet guys.

To scottGem. I know but I'm really the invisable girl at my school and I really don't have a lot of time to do after school stuff but any others?

Why don't you have time to do after school stuff? How about getting a job. That might be helpful.

To J_9 Y I don't have because school is just too much some times and can't really deal with it

To J_9. 16

Hi, am3201993!

What are you doing when you're not in school, please?

Thanks!

You have the same 24 hours in a day as any other girl in your school, it is how you use them.

You don't need someone to ask you if you are okay when you feel sad. This will get old very fast and that boy will take off running.

To Clough. I really do nothing but I don't like my school so I try and stay away in the afternoons after hours

To J_9.I know but not every time but u know some one that cares

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I'm really the invisable girl at my school

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Why are you invisible?

What do you do after school and all evening?

To wondergirl. I say that I'm invisable because no one notices me even though I try but I really do nothing in the afternoons because I don't want to be stuck at school and I don't like being their.

This may help understanding the OP:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...ar-419854.html

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to wondergirl. I say that I'm invisable bc no one notices me even though I try but I really do nothing in the afternoons bc I don't want to be stuck at school and I don't like being their.

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First, please don't type in chat speak, that's not allowed here. We type in full words and sentences.

There are lots of ways teens meet up. But we need to know more about you to help. Why don't you like to stay around school to be in clubs? What else do you do with your time? Have you talked to your parents or a school counselor?

To SCOTTGEM. That guy that I had he broke up with me he dumped me like yeasterday's trash

He won't be the last. I know it hurts, but you have a long life ahead of you. Maybe you should concentrate on your schoolwork and preparing for college.

To scottgem. I only have one year left of school then I'm out! And Idk how long I'm going to live for so that is y I'm asking

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First, please don't type in chat speak, that's not allowed here. We type in full words and sentences.

There are lots of ways teens meet up. But we need to know more about you to help. Why don't you like to stay around school to be in clubs? What else do you do with your time? Have you talked to your parents or a school counselor?

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I don't because it's just werid

OK, if you want us to help you, you have to give us something to go on. Just saying something is weird doesn't help us help you.

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I don't because it's just werid

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How is it weird?

Do kids pick on you, or just ignore you?

Have you ever had a real-life friend?

What do you LIKE about school?

Is there at least one teacher you like?

To wondergirl. It just is. Some times and they just ignore me that is y I'm the ghost girl. Yea I have friends I sit with them at lunch all the time. Lunch is my fave. My Hurticluture teacher and my art teacher.

To scottgem. What do u want me to say?

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to scottgem. what do u want me to say?

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I want to understand why you don't like your school. What you do with your time outside of school, etc. We need to understand these things if we are to help.

To ScottGem. Why I don't like my school because we have the worst teachers and the highest drop out rate in our state.

Outside of school I just don't do anything but when I'm at home all I do is work some times.

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outside of school I just don't do anything but when I'm at home all I do is work some times.

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What kind of work? Housework? Chores? Homework? Every day?

What about getting a job somewhere to make money?

Do you live in a farm area or a small town or in a city?

Instead of replying in short sentences, try spending some time thinking about our questions and give us something we can go on to help you.

To ScottGem. I do chores at home and I don't really have to work a lot but how does this help me with my problem?

To scottGem. Who are you?

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to scottGem. who r u?

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This is your last warning. We do NOT allow chat speak here. It's who ARE YOU? R and U are just letters.

If you want to know who I am, look at my profile.

am3201993...

You need to seriously consider a few things:

1. You do not need a boyfriend.

2. You're 16. Learn more about yourself at this age, then how to get a boyfriend.

3. When you are so desperate to get a boyfriend, chances are, you will fall for the first guy that pays you some attention, and he will end up lousy, and you will get your heartbroken. Desperation is a trap. Get out of it!

4. Find out what love really is. Words may speak, but actions sing. Love is commitment, respect, trust, willingness to die for someone. Love is a choice, and love is a verb, feelings do not last. Love is not romantic feelings.

5. Be friends with guys. Friends before lovers, and you'll avoid getting into a relationship with someone you barely know.

To ScottGem. Who are you I would like to know?

To jaime99. I don't have time left in high school so I get out soon. Because I was born in March so it takes a while but now I'm 16 1/2.